Sticky situation with this girl.

[Nycbkdude]

So I took this insanely popular girl on a double date 2 weeks ago (she asked If I can bring a friend for hers). It was a fun date etc...
This girl is a pro model and is pretty loaded.
That being said we have good communication text every so often she hits up my pics on Instagram.
I set up a date for today a few days ago, I text her to confirm it and she says she is sick with a fever.
This girl does not usually give guys the time of day (never responds to ost others)
She doesn't go out much and barely ever sips her liquor.

I hope she's not blowing me off though.

This is what my issue is I'm not the type to chase a broad, I'm quite good looking, we are still both in college.

Should I text/call her or what?

I'm guessing I should call tomorrow and tell her how she's doing and then make plans.

This will be a second date

 

[Mr Wright]

Reading this post just makes me think you have given this girl waaaay too much value.

Pretty girls are the most insecure because they realise people only look at them for their beauty. Remove that and half of them would crap themselves.

She knows you're going to call or text her = no mystery, her emotions are stable, no butterflies

She knew you wanted to see her alone...said no anyway = you're not man enough to tell her otherwise


Issue is you see her as the prize, the golden girl so she is acting like that and fitting into that role. You'll be chasing her all the way to the bedroom but I doubt it'll get that far.

From here though, I'd make sure the next date is a 1 on 1 and try to seduce her rather than be fun.

 

[Nycbkdude]

youre right

that is the way she probably feels but the reason im playing it safe is because i see more than 1000 guys hit her up every day, and theirs another guy that i personally know that pretty much wont talk to me because she went out with me and not him and he wanted her before i knew her.

Good advice you give, i am a pretty aggressive guy as it is.
Ill call her and tell her the plan as it is and wont take a no from her i guess?

 

[VladPatton]

Doesn't matter who she is and how many guys are after her. If you marry her tomorrow those same 1,000 guys will forever be chasing her because of her looks. So, with that out of the way, just play it cool. Wait till she's over her cold. fever, whatever, and ask her on another date. If she flakes, or gives you a crap story with no counter offer, then that's all she wrote. Not much more you can do.

In fact you'll be the better man for not eternally chasing her with your tongue sticking out like the other hordes of chumps out there.

 

[tripod23]

first thing i would have said ..when she said can my friend come along.......is ahhhhh NO..........it goes something like this...............

her - can my friend come along
you - what or wtf... your friend
her - yeah my friend
you - na not really i dont like being watched
her - what do you mean being watched
you - your friend watching you have your hands allover me.
her - ok then il tell her she cant come see you at 7.30pm

if she continued to force for the friend to come along , shes a cdck blocker so i would just have said give me a call if you fancy a 1on1 night out....see ya

fvck that shyt dude......this would be ok if you were banging one of them already and say her friend was at a loose end , but this na doesnt work for me .

good luck tho fella

 

[Nycbkdude]

Ok

So I'll try to work with the situation I'm already in.

Her friend is pretty interested in me, I know for a fact if I call her friend she will fvck me behind her gf's back.
I really like the girl though and want it to work. I have plenty of females rotate through me, I didn't want this to turn out the same way.

So bottom line this is one of my reasons that I can't leave this without at least banging her, a distant friend of mine got really jealous that she's somewhat into and said that he will have her. I'm the type of guy that won't be able to live with myself if this occurs.

So when do I call her?

 

[Your_Royal_Flyness]

Move On

So I'll try to work with the situation I'm already in.

Her friend is pretty interested in me, I know for a fact if I call her friend she will fvck me behind her gf's back.
I really like the girl though and want it to work. I have plenty of females rotate through me, I didn't want this to turn out the same way.

So bottom line this is one of my reasons that I can't leave this without at least banging her, a distant friend of mine got really jealous that she's somewhat into and said that he will have her. I'm the type of guy that won't be able to live with myself if this occurs.

So when do I call her?

Strike one was when you accepted a group date. Never do that. That's basically a chicks way to go out, get free sh*t and prevent boredom. Her friend is her, "I'm not giving up any p*ssy" insurance policy.
Strike two is when she flaked out.

Bro she has no interest. If she was interested enough, she would have found a way. And if she was REALLY sick, SHE would have rescheduled.

I deal with models all the time (www.flynessmodels.com) and model or not, MOST females sweat certain guys. Right now, she's NOT sweating you. You need to move on. In the future, my suggestion is that you learn to acquire a small "team". Have multiple chicks you're working on so you're not placing too much importance on one vag. Remember this bro.

A WOMAN'S TRUMP CARD = SEX/WITHHOLDING SEX
A MAN'S TRUMP CARD = OPTIONS

And OPTIONS will ALWAYS TRUMP SEX with one woman.

YOU NEED OPTIONS.

 

[HyperAnalyze]

Strike one was when you accepted a group date. Never do that. That's basically a chicks way to go out, get free sh*t and prevent boredom. Her friend is her, "I'm not giving up any p*ssy" insurance policy.
Strike two is when she flaked out.

Bro she has no interest. If she was interested enough, she would have found a way. And if she was REALLY sick, SHE would have rescheduled.

I deal with models all the time (www.flynessmodels.com) and model or not, MOST females sweat certain guys. Right now, she's NOT sweating you. You need to move on. In the future, my suggestion is that you learn to acquire a small "team". Have multiple chicks you're working on so you're not placing too much importance on one vag. Remember this bro.

A WOMAN'S TRUMP CARD = SEX/WITHHOLDING SEX
A MAN'S TRUMP CARD = OPTIONS

And OPTIONS will ALWAYS TRUMP SEX with one woman.

YOU NEED OPTIONS.

LMAO. True.

Alright man, you need to cut the crap. Make a date with her and be very firm. You aren't to take any bull@$#% ie. her bringing a friend into the equation.

These kinds of girls like an aggressive guy with OPTIONS and KNOWS what he wants, and isn't going to supplicate her reality because he has a reality of his own. She can either be part of it. OR NOT.

Call her and make plans. Don't fluff talk too much.

 

[Nycbkdude]

Remember this bro.

A WOMAN'S TRUMP CARD = SEX/WITHHOLDING SEX
A MAN'S TRUMP CARD = OPTIONS

And OPTIONS will ALWAYS TRUMP SEX with one woman.

YOU NEED OPTIONS.

I have quite a few options, I have girls that are in love with me.
I have girls calling me trying to take me out, I have broads asking to go on all paid vacations with them thing is I lose interest in the ones that want me I like the really difficult ones.

This girl is a Virgin and SUPER HIGH CLASS.
I want her lol it's a mission now specially that someone thinks they will get it before me.


I have a pretty good track record.

I'll call her up tell her the plan and that's it, no other options for her.
If she doesn't take it I'll end up getting with her friend who's already messaging me
She wasted enough of my time if anything I'll at least ruin her friendship.