"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Sticking Point: Run out of talk in the set...help

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kidkris2007

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I've been doing alot of sets and I've learned a few things so far. First, comfort and happiness is essential. You never want to go into a set feeling like crap cus it won't work out. SO whatever you have to do to get yourself into that state, do it. Also, peacocking definitely has it's place especially in clubs. But you must look fashionable while doing it. I wore a "Best of British" T-shirt last night and girls were opening me which was pretty cool.

Anyways, here's my problem that I think alot of guys have but it's really bugging me. I keep running out of things to say in the set. I don't know why but the conversation usually goes pretty dull at some point and I tend to just give up and exit which I HATE doing. I feel this is due to my lack of identity and experience with girlfriends. It was so annoying cus I look good and get flirty looks but as soon as I approach and get 2 minutes into the set I can see they've lost interest in my lack of wit/conversation running dry. Any words of advice fellas? I'm feeling like crap right now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Memorize more material? :whistle:
 
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early on you can just start stacking on all the good ol tyler durden attraction stuff... mini-cold reads, roleplaying, story telling, misrepresenting etc.. just go ultra playful and keep the convo 90/10... and then of course work you're comfort. COMFORT... real comfort is a HUGE factor in PU which seems to be really misunderstood.

anyhow if at anypoint the conversation is dying down just bust out with some emotional bombs.... "Whooaa whoaa, DONT look at me like that. You are such a sweet looking girl, but when you give me that eye contact, like that. I can tell how much of a bad girl you secretly are..."

just bust out bro... give them the emotional stimulation they cant resist.
but most of all feel good and entertain yourself.

its not what you say so much anyhow, its the vibe/frame of mind, you bring with you. Girls are easily emotionally caught up in a moment and vibe. Carelesss about good convo, and care more about bringing good vibes to the table and keeping the FUN sexual vibe throuought your interactions... thats all subhcommunicated.
 
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