jeff_reigert
Don Juan
I am 22, just graduated college and moved home. I have known about the game for a year or two... starting by reading an article here and there, then becoming the typical learn-everything case and going through all the literature out there. The RSD material really was the best. Foundations-> Blueprint is really all any man needs. Transformations, Jeffy Show, and Tim's Flawless Natural are all fantastic as well.
When I was getting into this stuff, it seemed like I was having a lot more sucess. I went to a small (2000ish kids) liberal arts college. The thing I never realized was that I had permanent social proof there. (Not to brag or sound like a douche) but I was well known on our campus as someone to know, bartended at a popular bar, knew practically everyone. I would go out and things would just go my way. It was like I was "in state" for 4 years of my life.
I got home now to a suburb where its not all twenty-somethings and everything has fallen apart for me. I have a good group of friends around here and I still work the social circle game, but I am just in a huge slump. I realize I can't really do approaches. People used to just open me all the time. I am a big fan of Rollo Tomassi's Plate Theory. www.sosuave.com/articles/plate.htm It is a great way to avoid oneitis by having lots of prospects. On my last drive home from school I went through my text message outbox and had to delete all my old prospects. There were multiple girls for each night. Now I have a few in rotation (that aren't that quality) and even they flake on me. Everything is harder back home. I am a really social guy. I can talk to anyone. But even when I put together a fun night, its just harder to bounce around and all that **** I took for granted before.
I really need to turn my ass around and get on track. I have a part-time internship and only work a couple days a week so I have plenty of time to brush up, I just don't know where to start. Setting a goal for daily approaches seems like the most obvious thing I need to start with. Any advice on how to get back on track would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much.
When I was getting into this stuff, it seemed like I was having a lot more sucess. I went to a small (2000ish kids) liberal arts college. The thing I never realized was that I had permanent social proof there. (Not to brag or sound like a douche) but I was well known on our campus as someone to know, bartended at a popular bar, knew practically everyone. I would go out and things would just go my way. It was like I was "in state" for 4 years of my life.
I got home now to a suburb where its not all twenty-somethings and everything has fallen apart for me. I have a good group of friends around here and I still work the social circle game, but I am just in a huge slump. I realize I can't really do approaches. People used to just open me all the time. I am a big fan of Rollo Tomassi's Plate Theory. www.sosuave.com/articles/plate.htm It is a great way to avoid oneitis by having lots of prospects. On my last drive home from school I went through my text message outbox and had to delete all my old prospects. There were multiple girls for each night. Now I have a few in rotation (that aren't that quality) and even they flake on me. Everything is harder back home. I am a really social guy. I can talk to anyone. But even when I put together a fun night, its just harder to bounce around and all that **** I took for granted before.
I really need to turn my ass around and get on track. I have a part-time internship and only work a couple days a week so I have plenty of time to brush up, I just don't know where to start. Setting a goal for daily approaches seems like the most obvious thing I need to start with. Any advice on how to get back on track would be greatly appreciated. Thanks so much.