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[tyson]

Hey, fellow forumers.

I am stuck at a place where I can get girls real phone numbers but not out on a date. It's like their attraction level is high when we part, but fades before a meetup can happen.

So, 2 questions:

1 - what do I need to work on during the interaction when I'm getting a number; How do I create deeper attraction?

2 - Is there any texting road map that lines out how I should go about asking girls out? They all reply to me and banter, agree to go out, but flake on the date.

Thanks you incredible people.

 

[TheException]

Hey, fellow forumers.

I am stuck at a place where I can get girls real phone numbers but not out on a date. It's like their attraction level is high when we part, but fades before a meetup can happen.

Doubtful. Its much more likely their "attraction level" was never high to begin with....

1 - what do I need to work on during the interaction when I'm getting a number; How do I create deeper attraction?

The problem here is your mindset.

You shouldnt be giving a sh1t about "creating deeper attraction". If the girl is not interested its her loss. You should be the one trying to find out if she is a match for yourself.......not trying to impress or attract her.

2 - Is there any texting road map that lines out how I should go about asking girls out? They all reply to me and banter, agree to go out, but flake on the date.

Cut the banter.

One to two playful texts then ask "What days are you free next week?".

Game over.

 

[tyson]

@TheException - thanks for the break down man. I completely get all of that.

Loading mindset recalibration..........

Successfully ****ing complete.

Ty