Customer122
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Im a 31 year old male.. Around two years ago my dj skills were at their peak , i was able to magically generate attraction in most women i desired.Bedding them usually a given.
Then things took a turn for the worst , i lost my job , my LTR dumped me and i moved back in with my mom , car even got repoed, my confidence took a serious beating during this time.
After a year of being down in the doldrums, i finally was able to bounce back , albeit having learned a lotta lessons about life in general.Have a car again , a great job , nice apartment, things are looking good.
I figured that id be able to leverage on my previous DJing success and seamlessly swing right back into the game.But man was i wrong , i somehow seemed to have regressed back into being an AFC , and it sucked ?
So i decided to start from complete scratch, hit the Gym , dusted off my old copy of double your dating , scoured the forums.8 months later ive gained some muscle mass, now weigh 80 kg from 69 kg , im aiming for a 90 kg solid mass low BF by end of next year (by the way i have an ectomorphic hard gainer body type , 1.78m tall)
What ive noticed now is that im able to trigger attraction in a women , im able to walk up to any chick an get her number.When i walk in a club , there is bound to be some hotties checking me out.The other day , i made out with a cute 19 year old for half the night in a club.I can lock eyes with a woman and have her give me that dear in headlights look. Thats the old me.
But , im somehow not able to sustain the attraction long enough to bed the girl.I can get a date with relative ease , but after that they get flaky and start the head games.
latest example is this cute buxom, curvaceous thing i met the other day.Her IL was very high INITALLY , and i got her over to my place with ease.We chatted had some wine good convo , no sex.Since then she has been flaky as hell
Frustrating sticking point , any advice
Then things took a turn for the worst , i lost my job , my LTR dumped me and i moved back in with my mom , car even got repoed, my confidence took a serious beating during this time.
After a year of being down in the doldrums, i finally was able to bounce back , albeit having learned a lotta lessons about life in general.Have a car again , a great job , nice apartment, things are looking good.
I figured that id be able to leverage on my previous DJing success and seamlessly swing right back into the game.But man was i wrong , i somehow seemed to have regressed back into being an AFC , and it sucked ?
So i decided to start from complete scratch, hit the Gym , dusted off my old copy of double your dating , scoured the forums.8 months later ive gained some muscle mass, now weigh 80 kg from 69 kg , im aiming for a 90 kg solid mass low BF by end of next year (by the way i have an ectomorphic hard gainer body type , 1.78m tall)
What ive noticed now is that im able to trigger attraction in a women , im able to walk up to any chick an get her number.When i walk in a club , there is bound to be some hotties checking me out.The other day , i made out with a cute 19 year old for half the night in a club.I can lock eyes with a woman and have her give me that dear in headlights look. Thats the old me.
But , im somehow not able to sustain the attraction long enough to bed the girl.I can get a date with relative ease , but after that they get flaky and start the head games.
latest example is this cute buxom, curvaceous thing i met the other day.Her IL was very high INITALLY , and i got her over to my place with ease.We chatted had some wine good convo , no sex.Since then she has been flaky as hell
Frustrating sticking point , any advice
