"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Donjuanpablo

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Are these really necessary? If you want people to stop clogging up the board I think you should start with these, no one new is really reading them and it gives the board a real amature and messy look as if its run by high schoolers. Its also just one persons opinion, one of them locked giving no one the chance to discuss or disagree with the topic.

Just my opinion :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

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Originally posted by Donjuanpablo
Are these really necessary? If you want people to stop clogging up the board I think you should start with these, no one new is really reading them and it gives the board a real amature and messy look as if its run by high schoolers. Its also just one persons opinion, one of them locked giving no one the chance to discuss or disagree with the topic.

Just my opinion :)
Actually, its been unlocked. But yeah, I agree they should come down...Then again, the newbies should read them AND the bible...
 
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