"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stick to the basics

paraguayandj

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One thing I found out was that after reading posts in this site for over two years now is that a lot of the tips specially the new ones are completly stupid and useless. My best advice will be to stick to the basic tips given in the old days. They really work and if you are using them there shouldn't be a reason to come back and look for new advice. So if you are having girl problems just read the bible, learn and apply. Come back to this site only if you need to review somethings or help other rAFC's.:up:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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paraguayandj

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and you are basically retarded and gay
 

Sean O

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paraguayandj said:
and you are basically retarded and gay
If you were trying to save face with your response there, you didn't succeed.

Anyway, I believe that many of the new tips that you are referring to are intended to "fine-tune" someone's game, not be the foundation of it. If by "basic tips given in the old days", you mean the ones that help people with developing a strong inner game, then I agree with you; they are the most important, and the average person won't really need much beyond that to be successful with women.
 

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its a good tip, most of the new stuff is overcomplicating things
 
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