stick it out or just keep on walking

[toocool]

need some help here gentlemen! i have a 10 that i just can't get to stay for the long hall. She has a boyfriend that treats her like grap and she know's it because she tells me all the time. she tells me and others even in front of me in public that all she ever wanted is a guy like me and i'm so confident, funny blah blah. everytime her man go'es hunting she comes looking for me or of course when she here's i'm dating others from friends and family she comes a running but just as a friend thing. this has been going on for about a year now. cat and mouse game! Now i really want to end up with this girl and i think she is on the fence with the boyfriend. how do i push her off the fence? or do i just forget about her and move on? thanks for the help!

 

[toocool]

add on

i was invited to a bull roast/dance at the end of this month where we first met last year. she called and asked if i was going and i said yes but i'm bringing a date knowing she'll be there with her boyfriend. she said cool but she's not going with her boyfriend. i told her i haven't payed for my tickets yet and i'll let her know. so she took it upon herself to buy a pair of tickets at my sisters hair sallon and told everyone she's taking me but just as friends. i'm glad i didn't ask anyone yet. should i go with her or buy tickets and take someone? total confusion!

 

[felony]

You haven't read the bible have you.

 

[Austin Allegro]

Read the bible. You will find your situation is closely examined.

...and sort out your spelling!

 

[Bonhomme]

Go with someone else

I didn't read your post clearly enough at first, so disregard any advice I gave before editing this, if you had read my earlier comments.

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It looks like she wants to replace her boyfriend. But it certainly does not appear she's picked you as a replacement.

Hate to break the news, but it looks like she's simply not attracted to you physically. Go with someone who is.

 

[( . )( . )]

yep agree with the others, get reading , times a wasting, your 33 and thats a long time to be an AFC, your going to have a life change VERY soon.

keywords you can look out for that you will automatically recognize pertaining to your questions:

*emotional tampon
*male girlfriend
*good guy

 

[Cremasta]

Originally posted by toocool
everytime her man go'es hunting she comes looking for me

So we are talking about a wanker bf with rifles? Be careful mate, for all you know he could be a psycho. Especially if he thinks someone is moving in on his HB10.
To answer your question, buy tickets and take someone else...

If she is really interested in you, then you are going to have to force her hand by being unavailable to her and seeing other girls. If she gets rid of her bf, THEN let her use your valuable time. A year of cat and mouse??? You're more patient than is good for you.

 

[dietzcoi]

Don't waste your time, the HB 10 is playing you for a fool.

Stay away from HB 10s and HB9's - they will be spoiled rotten

6 thru 8 should be your target range. Otherwise you will be Mr. AFC forever. Trust me on this one!

Dietzcoi

 

[NewMan]

she tells me and others even in front of me in public that all she ever wanted is a guy like me and i'm so confident, funny blah blah. everytime her man go'es hunting she comes looking for me or of course when she here's i'm dating others from friends and family she comes a running but just as a friend thing. this has been going on for about a year now.

Your her emotional tampon buddy.

This has been going on for a year? get real.

Have you fvcked her yet? I'm betting NOT.

Women are the best at just doing enough, saying enough and being there enough to keep guys around. And she's done just that to you. She's probably told her BF all about you and how your Just friends.

The laugh is on you.

What you need to do is used the shun method.

Ignore her calls, ignore her. Take another chick to the dance and have a blast - ignore her totally.

Her BF probably doesn't want to go to these things, so she goes with you, her friend.

She's fvcking using you - so wake up.

Ignore her - and she will have to face reality or find another toy to play with.

You gotta get some balls.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Originally posted by NewMan
Your her emotional tampon buddy.

This has been going on for a year? get real.

Have you fvcked her yet? I'm betting NOT.

Women are the best at just doing enough, saying enough and being there enough to keep guys around. And she's done just that to you. She's probably told her BF all about you and how your Just friends.

The laugh is on you.

What you need to do is used the shun method.

Ignore her calls, ignore her. Take another chick to the dance and have a blast - ignore her totally.

Her BF probably doesn't want to go to these things, so she goes with you, her friend.

She's fvcking using you - so wake up.

Ignore her - and she will have to face reality or find another toy to play with.

You gotta get some balls.

Couldn't have said it better!!

Bump

 

[THA REALNESS]

She's teasing you man,Next her.

 

[Walden]

Realness nailed it.

Chicks like attention from guys. SHe can buy that attention from you just buy telling you you're money. You need to start testing her so she has to pay for your attention with sex(eventually) rather than words.