Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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MacAvoy said:
So does your morality compass say its ok to call people names? How mature. LOL ooh my feelings are hurt cuz you called me gay. At least I'm man enough to be confident in my sexuality.

edit: you must be christian/catholic from your preaching to the choir on one hand while being hypocritical with the other. At least I'm consistantly a d1ck.

"Do you know why you're gay? :)"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MacAvoy said:
Thunder,

Do you really think he's going to change what he does because YOU were sad when your mommy wasn't women enough to please her man?
Oh boy. How about instead of her not being woman enough, how about he wasn't man enough to uphold his vows?


Edit: Why would I think I would change his view? I'm just asking if he's naive enough to think that the truth won't come out in one form or another? Ask any child if the separation process is easy. I'm pretty sure 99% of them would say no. When your parents split especially when you're young you definitely lose a sense of safety. It also changes your perspective on relationships. I can't tell you how many times I would see my other...

ahh I just cut myself off. I'm not going to explain this. He made a decision and if his family finds out it's not going to be good. That's all.
 

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I love this guy's thinking

oldschooler said:
Ok here's the deal I cheated on me gf when I was drunk, she has yet to find out so I figure before the first incident of cheating gets to her which I believe it will one day, I cheat on her as many times as possible before she finds out ;)
This is bound to turn sour on me so I may as well have fun before the whole thing is screwed.
Comments?
He's only in high school and he's already smarter than you.
 

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MacAvoy said:
I love this guy's thinking



He's only in high school and he's already smarter than you.
Here is a shining example of why the world is suffering from a crisis of morality. With that kind of thought process, do we even have a chance of living up to our potential as human beings?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MacAvoy said:
Whats wrong with being gay? LOL
Well...YA don't belong on this site, for starters. "LOL"

Edit: I don't know if Mac is serious or not, but if he is I have no problem sticking my nose up at his mildly retarded logic.
 

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MacAvoy said:
I love this guy's thinking



He's only in high school and he's already smarter than you.
He's in high school, he's a kid. He's hit puberty and enjoying it, and it hardly applys to the mature forum, or this thread for that matter.

Of course, some people never quite outgrow the high school mentality. (hint...macavoy...hint). :)
 

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Mr.Positive said:
He's in high school, he's a kid. He's hit puberty and enjoying it, and it hardly applys to the mature forum, or this thread for that matter.

Of course, some people never quite outgrow the high school mentality. (hint...macavoy...hint). :)
Mr. Positive, it's pointless. You're talking about a guy that wanted to and was titilated about having a threesome with another guy. I mean really, what else can you possibly say lol?
 

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Mr. Positive, it's pointless. You're talking about a guy that wanted to and was titilated about having a threesome with another guy. I mean really, what else can you possibly say lol?
You can say GAAAAY "lol"

Alright. I'm going to stop before I get banned. I'm done!
 

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Even the great Rollo condones cheating. Surely whats good for the goose is good for the gander. If RT is correct, a women will cheat, and to paraphrase Str8up I believe, the worst feeling in the world is passing up opportunities only to find out that she didn't.
The worst feeling in the world is letting another person dictate YOUR own principles and morals by their actions. Where is the strength in that. I can't respect a man who thinks that way. That is really weak willed, and shows weakness in principle.

I've been cheated on, and never regretted my own decision not to cheat on that person.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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iqqi said:
I've been cheated on, and never regretted my own decision not to cheat on that person.
Thats because your a women. Ask any man thats been cheated on, I don't think the words coming out of his mouth will be, I'm glad I didn't cheat on that cheating wh0re.
 

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that's about enough now.

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