You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Thx for link. Is this the speech where he talks about being fired from Apple? I remember watching a speech of his ages back and it was very good. I'll watch this one anyways, got some spare time and feel like a bit of inspiration!Deep Dish said:For everyone who have never watched his commencement speech at Stanford:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UF8uR6Z6KLc
The best, most inspiring, motivational, and truthful speech I have ever watched. I suggest everyone do the same.
Yes, it is. He talks about how you can't know ahead of time how the dots will connect in your life and so you must follow your heart. "I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life."Gaucho said:Thx for link. Is this the speech where he talks about being fired from Apple?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yeh, it was the one I've watched previously but still a good watch. It's funny when you watch it years later, you take different messages from it. The older you get, the more you can relate to what his talking about. When you first finish University/College, that speech probably wouldn't mean much to you, but as you go on persuing a career and a living and meaning, you begin to understand what his talking about.Deep Dish said:Yes, it is. He talks about how you can't know ahead of time how the dots will connect in your life and so you must follow your heart. "I didn't see it then, but it turned out that getting fired from Apple was the best thing that could have ever happened to me. The heaviness of being successful was replaced by the lightness of being a beginner again, less sure about everything. It freed me to enter one of the most creative periods of my life."
Agreed.Gaucho said:Yeh, it was the one I've watched previously but still a good watch. It's funny when you watch it years later, you take different messages from it. The older you get, the more you can relate to what his talking about. When you first finish University/College, that speech probably wouldn't mean much to you, but as you go on persuing a career and a living and meaning, you begin to understand what his talking about.
LOL. Or was there?San Jose California said:Anyway I was biking to my weed dealer's place today and next to the sign for the apple building on de anza boulevard there were flowers.
That's because when a company goes public you have to staff it with a bunch of useless suits called the "Board of Directors".San Jose California said:Fired from apple? Didn't that guy invent apple?
Yeah, that's ****ed up. The guy made a product, to sell to you. He wasn't Ghandi, he made profit and popularized some nice gadgets. What the hell people?Anyway I was biking to my weed dealer's place today and next to the sign for the apple building on de anza boulevard there were flowers.
That is what most people don't seem to understand. Steve Jobs took the same hardware in PC computers and existing mp3 players, put them in apple products, marketed features, almost all of which already existed in other products, and sold it for a gigantic markup price making huge profit while his overseas workers were committing suicide all the time (serious they even had a Time magazine feature on it). Then Apple has become a bigger company than Microsoft, and Steve Jobs has donated almost no money to charity than Bill Gates.Alle_Gory said:That's because when a company goes public you have to staff it with a bunch of useless suits called the "Board of Directors".
Yeah, that's ****ed up. The guy made a product, to sell to you. He wasn't Ghandi, he made profit and popularized some nice gadgets. What the hell people?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I totally concur with you. Not to step on a man's grave, RIP but we aren't talking about Ghandi or MLK here.ArcBound said:That is what most people don't seem to understand. Steve Jobs took the same hardware in PC computers and existing mp3 players, put them in apple products, marketed features, almost all of which already existed in other products, and sold it for a gigantic markup price making huge profit while his overseas workers were committing suicide all the time (serious they even had a Time magazine feature on it). Then Apple has become a bigger company than Microsoft, and Steve Jobs has donated almost no money to charity than Bill Gates.
Now before people come into the thread saying Steve Jobs didn't have to donate any of his money, I agree with you. But the thing is people act like Steve Jobs is some magical saint who changed the world, and that Microsoft and Bill Gates is some giant monopoly, when Steve was just a master of marketing that sold you overhyped, and overpriced products with old features rebranded as new.
I totally concur with you. Not to step on a man's grave, RIP but we aren't talking about Ghandi or MLK here.ArcBound said:That is what most people don't seem to understand. Steve Jobs took the same hardware in PC computers and existing mp3 players, put them in apple products, marketed features, almost all of which already existed in other products, and sold it for a gigantic markup price making huge profit while his overseas workers were committing suicide all the time (serious they even had a Time magazine feature on it). Then Apple has become a bigger company than Microsoft, and Steve Jobs has donated almost no money to charity than Bill Gates.
Now before people come into the thread saying Steve Jobs didn't have to donate any of his money, I agree with you. But the thing is people act like Steve Jobs is some magical saint who changed the world, and that Microsoft and Bill Gates is some giant monopoly, when Steve was just a master of marketing that sold you overhyped, and overpriced products with old features rebranded as new.
Yes and no. Jobs had attention to detail and very high standards, so much so that he was seen as a tyrant and a major a*hole in his company and among his peers. He screwed his partner our of thousands of dollars when they were starting out by lying to him about how much they were getting paid. He abandoned his wife and daughter leaving them to seek welfare while he was making millions. Real piece of **** human being. However in the computer world he was able to add the much needed polish that these devices we use every day really needed.ArcBound said:That is what most people don't seem to understand. Steve Jobs took the same hardware in PC computers and existing mp3 players, put them in apple products, marketed features, almost all of which already existed in other products, and sold it for a gigantic markup price making huge profit while his overseas workers were committing suicide all the time (serious they even had a Time magazine feature on it). Then Apple has become a bigger company than Microsoft, and Steve Jobs has donated almost no money to charity than Bill Gates.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Apple only had better hardware in the sense of the chasis. Not the processor, memory, ram, harddrives, motherboards, power supplies or pretty much everything important. And for desktops, you can change the chasis of the PC to one as high a quality as you want if it concerns you that much.Alle_Gory said:Yes and no. Jobs had attention to detail and very high standards, so much so that he was seen as a tyrant and a major a*hole in his company and among his peers. He screwed his partner our of thousands of dollars when they were starting out by lying to him about how much they were getting paid. He abandoned his wife and daughter leaving them to seek welfare while he was making millions. Real piece of **** human being. However in the computer world he was able to add the much needed polish that these devices we use every day really needed.
If you look at Windows Mobile and Windows CE and Mac and iOS the difference is staggering. Under the hood Windows is really solid but it looks ugly and it's not that user friendly.
Hardware wise the difference is again staggering. Mac had the nice sealed uni-body design and fancy materials meanwhile all the other PC makers were struggling to glue their cheap plastic parts together and call it "hardware".
I don't know the PowerPC G4 processors were pretty amazing and that technology has been recycled and used in the Xbox 360 console, the cell processor for the PS3 which is a little monster although the PS3 has a **** GPU and little RAM which limits, and it's also being used in industry applications like banking.ArcBound said:Apple only had better hardware in the sense of the chasis. Not the processor, memory, ram, harddrives, motherboards, power supplies or pretty much everything important. And for desktops, you can change the chasis of the PC to one as high a quality as you want if it concerns you that much.
If it wasn't for the Mac and iPhone platforms we may not have had the competition to develop nice and easy to use interfaces, nice hardware shells, and we might not have the tech in the PS3 and the 360. Considering how old these consoles are, they are very powerful.But you are right though, the macOS's are very easy to use. But easy doesn't mean the best. I can do a lot more things on my Windows than someone can on their Mac, just like someone can have a greater degree of control using Linux than with Windows.
very true.Alle_Gory said:Damn good technology which Apple abandoned for off the shelf Intel parts.
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Probably money and an inability to produce chips that met their needs. All Intel does is CPUs (and related microchips) and they are very good at it. Architectures aside, there's more to a CPU than that. There's also the size and complexity and the process to burn the CPU into the silicon.Burroughs said:allegory do you know why the change was made to intel parts? Was it a cost issue?
1) The cell processor was not made by Apple. Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cell_(microprocessor)Alle_Gory said:I don't know the PowerPC G4 processors were pretty amazing and that technology has been recycled and used in the Xbox 360 console, the cell processor for the PS3 which is a little monster although the PS3 has a **** GPU and little RAM which limits, and it's also being used in industry applications like banking.
This was developed by Apple, IBM and Motorola. Damn good technology which Apple abandoned for off the shelf Intel parts.
If it wasn't for the Mac and iPhone platforms we may not have had the competition to develop nice and easy to use interfaces, nice hardware shells, and we might not have the tech in the PS3 and the 360. Considering how old these consoles are, they are very powerful.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.