steping up the kino..

[unknowntim3]

ok guys, im having a huge problem here in steping up my kino... around my girl "friends" i act myself and we can have full convos and everything is fine, but the moment im attracted to a certain girl i seem to be the "nice guy" again... i have trouble thinking of something to say, and then i end up saying soemthing stupid, so theni think about why i said that, while we are still trying to talk so everything goes to ****........

i cant seem to get myself out of the "nice guy" mode and cant seem to pick up these convos and go with them... anytime i get back from with a chick and stuff i just think of how horrible it went just because of what i did or said.. even tho it wasnt that bad.......

and when i first meet a girl and stuff i always end up going into the friend zone and she ends up losing her attraction to me... its really agravating so throw out anything at me.. help me step this **** up!

yeah any advice would be great. thx

 

[Zero0ne]

Don't think of the destination, just the direction.

 

[WishIWas]

Think about why she loses interest.

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=40188

 

[fezz]

So, you get a girl that you are attracted to and you automatically go in to nice guy mode, eh? Well, I noticed that happened to me at the mall the other day. She was a really shy girl too. I was with my cousin whenever we were talking to these girls. I was attracted to the one I was talkin to , but hadn't been using kino because I was afraid to. (You never really know how those shy girls will react) So, when we were walkin I pulled my cousin (learning DJ) over and told him to slap the shy girl's a$$. Whenever we went back to the group of girls, the shy girl asked us what we were talking about. My cousin wouldn't tell her and she wanted to know really bad. so I go, "are you sure you wanna know??" and she said "Yes" and I reached over and slapped her a$$ pretty freakin hard. she got embarrassed, but I think it was the good kind of embarrassment, because whenever the girls left the mall, they took a glance back at us. It was really funny though. If you ever turn into a nice guy, just slap their a$$.