Dee-Zy
Master Don Juan
Hardwork.
I was raised to believed that the easiest ways to anything, are the worst directions you can ever take.
This applies to everything. Nobody can become great unless they work hard. This goes from becoming a DJ, working out, sports or any disciplines. And of course, this applies to self-improvement the most.
Self-improvement is hard. Very hard, for the simple fact that everybody has their comfort zones. Nobody likes to step out of this comfort zone, this is intrinsic. It is human nature, it is 'nature'. Even animals are like this.
I don't believe that there are any 'easy ways' to anything. Therefore, becoming a 'DJ' is not easy either. However, it doesn't mean that it HAS to be hard. It only has to be hardwork. Being shot down is very demoralizing, therefore 'thinking' about being shot down will come to the same end. The hard work comes from, willing to go againts the grain - to take action when it doesn't feel natural to do so. Even if you feel that you will be shot down, run HEAD FIRST! Yes that's right, run in head first, do it, go for it - get it over with. Why?
Because that is the hardest way. The easiest route would be to not approach/close or take any form of action on your target. By the hardwork principle, this is not only the easiest, but also the sleaziest most pathetic, pointless path.
Easiest because it allows you to avoid confrontation.
Sleaziest because you are only being dishonest to yourself.
Pathetic because ... need I say this?
Finally, it is pointless because the fact that you did not step out of your comfort zone prevented you to take action.
Therefore, you are back right where you started. With nothing.
Stepping out of our comfort zone is hard, very hard. Therefore that is why I believe that for that simple matter, EVERYBODY should be stepping out of their comfort zone AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, as it allows you to self-improve. How? Us, humans are very adaptible creatures. Therefore, the more you put yourself out there (as in outside of your comfort zone), the faster you WILL become comfortable.
Next thing you know, whatever was 'naturally' hard to you, just became 'natural' for you.
Happy Trails!
I was raised to believed that the easiest ways to anything, are the worst directions you can ever take.
This applies to everything. Nobody can become great unless they work hard. This goes from becoming a DJ, working out, sports or any disciplines. And of course, this applies to self-improvement the most.
Self-improvement is hard. Very hard, for the simple fact that everybody has their comfort zones. Nobody likes to step out of this comfort zone, this is intrinsic. It is human nature, it is 'nature'. Even animals are like this.
I don't believe that there are any 'easy ways' to anything. Therefore, becoming a 'DJ' is not easy either. However, it doesn't mean that it HAS to be hard. It only has to be hardwork. Being shot down is very demoralizing, therefore 'thinking' about being shot down will come to the same end. The hard work comes from, willing to go againts the grain - to take action when it doesn't feel natural to do so. Even if you feel that you will be shot down, run HEAD FIRST! Yes that's right, run in head first, do it, go for it - get it over with. Why?
Because that is the hardest way. The easiest route would be to not approach/close or take any form of action on your target. By the hardwork principle, this is not only the easiest, but also the sleaziest most pathetic, pointless path.
Easiest because it allows you to avoid confrontation.
Sleaziest because you are only being dishonest to yourself.
Pathetic because ... need I say this?
Finally, it is pointless because the fact that you did not step out of your comfort zone prevented you to take action.
Therefore, you are back right where you started. With nothing.
Stepping out of our comfort zone is hard, very hard. Therefore that is why I believe that for that simple matter, EVERYBODY should be stepping out of their comfort zone AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE, as it allows you to self-improve. How? Us, humans are very adaptible creatures. Therefore, the more you put yourself out there (as in outside of your comfort zone), the faster you WILL become comfortable.
Next thing you know, whatever was 'naturally' hard to you, just became 'natural' for you.
Happy Trails!
