"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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That one about confirming day before and day of is gold. That is most likely why I lost a girl before. Always confirm, no idea why I didnt live and learn. Thanks muscleman.
 
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JohnChops said:
That one about confirming day before and day of is gold. That is most likely why I lost a girl before. Always confirm, no idea why I didnt live and learn. Thanks muscleman.
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You confirm the day of too. Never using the actual word 'confirm', but just to make sure it's still go time. And, as mentioned in the post, always have a 'maybe' backup plan. I always have 2 backup options on a night I'm for-sure going out. Unless you're extremely high value that she wouldn't dare flake, chances are you're not priority #1, or if you are then there are other priority #1's that can come out of nowhere. For most of us - until the SMV difference becomes significant - this is the reality.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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muscleman said:
I've had a few people ask me for instructional material for meeting girls, going on a date, sealing the deal, and continued dating. I've posted multiple articles on individual parts and the time has come to consolidate content into a step by step guide.

Here's a collection of articles covering date setting, conversation topics, date ideas, the bar date step by step, kino escalation, kiss closing, foreplay escalation, ASD/LMR, and post coital etiquette.

Hope this helps, enjoy!
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written by a true dj. great posts, and full of logic (something women generally aren't capable of)
 
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