"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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steet smarts-what is it, how can u gain more of it

joe45

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what the heck is street smarts? how can one gain more street smarts anyways. is it by goin out more? can one be book smart and lack street smarts.

anyone here ever met someone who lacked street smarts and how so. what did they do that was way out. examples. why are some ppl so street smart and other aren't.
any examples of ppl who lack street smarts and how did they learn, or how are some examples of ppl who are street smart.

what does the term innocent mean.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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street smarts is a relative term... it can shapeshift...
some girls think any tuff guy/fighter is street smart...
some girls think any guy who sells drugs is street smart...
some girls think any guy who listens to rap is street smart...
it's a dumb term...

but to most it's prolly defining a persons swagger... if they have a little bit of a hard edge to them... if they believe that person could survive outside of their comfortable world...

being called innocent is not a good thing most the time... that's something you should be calling other women...
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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it a nutshell, it has nothing to do with the street (unless you were actually in the street).

all "street smarts" is... is common sense.

they call it street smarts probably because if you were in the streets, your "book smarts" means nothing... you have to survive with your common sense.

common sense as in not walking down the hood as a white guy... saying "What up nigga?" (since it seems a lot of people say that when there aren't any black people around)
 

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Michele said:
all "street smarts" is... is common sense.
If all it takes is common sense then everyone can be street smarts.

A dictionary defines street smarts as having shrewd awareness of how to survive or succeed in any situation.

A good example is the movie "training day". Another good exmaple is the book "The 48 laws of power".
 
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Well, I think I'll have to leave my parent's house before I can get street smart.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Book Smarts: Knowing how the automobile was invented
Street Smarts: Knowing if you're getting ripped off by the car dealership

Book Smarts: Knowing how electricity works
Street Smarts: Knowing not to stick a paper clip into an electrical outlet

Book Smarts: Knowing that "fag" is slang for a cigarette in the UK
Street Smarts: Knowing not to walk up to a group of people and loudly ask for a fag
 

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Giovanni Casanova said:
Book Smarts: Knowing that "fag" is slang for a cigarette in the UK
Street Smarts: Knowing not to walk up to a group of people and loudly ask for a fag
you rock :rock:
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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Giovanni Casanova said:
Book Smarts: Knowing how the automobile was invented
Street Smarts: Knowing if you're getting ripped off by the car dealership

Book Smarts: Knowing how electricity works
Street Smarts: Knowing not to stick a paper clip into an electrical outlet

Book Smarts: Knowing that "fag" is slang for a cigarette in the UK
Street Smarts: Knowing not to walk up to a group of people and loudly ask for a fag
ex. common sense.
 
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