"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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stealing the girl.

DogFashionDisco

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Alright, I know this a bad idea, but I'm gonna try and steal this chick who has a boyfriend. She's the friend of my "almost" (creative, I know) girlfriend (in that I kissed her a few times, but I nexted her because we didn't get to see each other often, and just didn't want her).

This girl started talking to me over myspace (which I usually hate) like 3 days ago, and I just sent the last message today that I've gonna respond to and I got her number, along with a "you're a cutie. call me sometime". She seems to be really interested in me and the like from what I can see. Anyways, she's been with her boyfriend for a long time now (I think), and he seems to be obsessed with her, telling her about how much he loves her and how his life is awesome because she's there. I have a feeling she's getting sick of him...

This weekend is my birthday, so it's gonna be a no go now, but I'm gonna call her soon enough. I would invoke the code of Bros Before Hoes... unfortunately the bf is not my bro, so no! >:)


what do you guys think?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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aftershock

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I have no moral objection to it. Sounds like her BF is an AFC.
 

Hitch

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Take her, it's always more exciting to go after the ones with BF's anyways.
 

musclyjerk

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Sad fact is her boyfriend needs some lessons in life, so school him by doing it.

Sad fact is, he would still stay with her if she told him she cheated on him.... the only way they will break up is when she dumps him for being so pathetic.

How sad a woman has so much power of a man.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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