"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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stealing the girl.

DogFashionDisco

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Alright, I know this a bad idea, but I'm gonna try and steal this chick who has a boyfriend. She's the friend of my "almost" (creative, I know) girlfriend (in that I kissed her a few times, but I nexted her because we didn't get to see each other often, and just didn't want her).

This girl started talking to me over myspace (which I usually hate) like 3 days ago, and I just sent the last message today that I've gonna respond to and I got her number, along with a "you're a cutie. call me sometime". She seems to be really interested in me and the like from what I can see. Anyways, she's been with her boyfriend for a long time now (I think), and he seems to be obsessed with her, telling her about how much he loves her and how his life is awesome because she's there. I have a feeling she's getting sick of him...

This weekend is my birthday, so it's gonna be a no go now, but I'm gonna call her soon enough. I would invoke the code of Bros Before Hoes... unfortunately the bf is not my bro, so no! >:)


what do you guys think?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I have no moral objection to it. Sounds like her BF is an AFC.
 

Hitch

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Take her, it's always more exciting to go after the ones with BF's anyways.
 

musclyjerk

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Sad fact is her boyfriend needs some lessons in life, so school him by doing it.

Sad fact is, he would still stay with her if she told him she cheated on him.... the only way they will break up is when she dumps him for being so pathetic.

How sad a woman has so much power of a man.

The Muscly Jerk
 
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