Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Stealing girls with Boyfriends?

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so i've reading alot of the older posts on this site and I find alot of people running into girlfriends who already have boyfriends.

The advice given to these guys is to go ahead and take action. And work the DJ magic and snatch that snatch.

However, what im wondering is (especially in high school), girls are falling in "love" left and right. How are guys stealing "in-love" girls?

From what i've experienced..when youre in that "love" state its really fkn hard to train your thought on anything else.

How are these guys breaking through taht love-shield to snatch the women?

i just dont get it. anyone care to explain?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Snow Plowman

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Its actually easier getting a chick who has a bf, in my experience I mistakenly gamed 5 girls in a row who all had bfs. 3 who never mentioned there BF I happen to find out and 2 who didn't care and told stories about him.

The thing is once she feels attraction and becomes emotional it doesn't matter if she has a BF. Plus most hot girls are always going to be seeing multiple guys regardless.
 

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The thing is once she feels attraction and becomes emotional it doesn't matter if she has a BF. Plus most hot girls are always going to be seeing multiple guys regardless.
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hmm that is very interesting and may very well be correct. Im just kind of puzzled on i guess a female version of one-itus.

Generally speaking, when say theyve been dating for awhile, is it right to assume they now have one-itus for eachother?

and is it safe to assume that one-itus is difficult to game over?

i am not sure, please correct and enlighten me if im wrong. you two seem likeyou know what you're talking about.
 

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Females don't know what they want man they change there mind all the time. I wouldn't exactly call these types quality girls but just do your thing. I used to steal a girl a week from another guy. Just don't be the boyfriend ...be what he isn't
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Reframe him as the nice guy and game away.
 

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Don't fvck with other guy's girls. You will end up having a lot of enemies and getting your head smashed in.

My opinion.

And contrary to popular belief not every hot girl cheats.
 

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SinJester said:
1.) Don't fvck with other guy's girls. You will end up having a lot of enemies and getting your head smashed in.

2.) And contrary to popular belief not every hot girl cheats.
1.) Nonsense, most guys are feminised wusses.

2.) Agreed, infact a lot of them are in LTR's and think they are so high value that only that particular guy is worth their pvssy and time.
 

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Bros before hoes brother.

At least we agree on one thing :p
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I have like the same problem right now, it seems like this girl is really attracted to me but she has a bf and he's a good friend of mine, but she is just so hot with a nice butt and great boobs, so i dont know if i should make a move or wut
 

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Go right ahead man. She cheats that's her problem not yours.

If the guy can't keep her, more power to you buddy.
 

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I never thought of it that way.. you da man dude... i'll probably try that triangle thing with her and see what happens
 

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girls are emogical. get her interested then eventualy isolate then get her very horny and make the first move.
 

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Jerry said:
I have like the same problem right now, it seems like this girl is really attracted to me but she has a bf and he's a good friend of mine, but she is just so hot with a nice butt and great boobs, so i dont know if i should make a move or wut
i definattlye dont think actin on a friend's girl is a good diea. but if you arent freidns with the guy... then go right ahaead. bros over hoes only works if the giuy is acutally a bro.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Jerry said:
I have like the same problem right now, it seems like this girl is really attracted to me but she has a bf and he's a good friend of mine, but she is just so hot with a nice butt and great boobs, so i dont know if i should make a move or wut
i definattlye dont think actin on a friend's girl is a good diea. but if you arent freidns with the guy... then go right ahaead. bros over hoes only works if the giuy is acutally a bro.
 
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