"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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stealing girls from their boyfriends, worth the time?

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So there's this girl, i met on myspace, she came onto me and wated to chat or whatever. So we chatted for a week or so, then we got to talking and we met up a few times.

Super cute girl, 19, blonde blue eyes, short, super cute.

She has a boyfriend right, but she says things aren't going well with him, and I just basically ignored any boyfriend comments that she made, which was like zero anyways.

So how do I play this angle? Just ignore that she has a boyfriend totally and act like she was single?

Thats the angle i'm going to pull. I mean she totally loves me. She calls me after going out with her girlfriends (i was out with my friends somewhere), and says yeah we went to see some movie, and I wasn't even paying attention to the movie, all I could do was think about you.

So I told her flat out, i'll pick you up and you can come over to my house. Done deal.

So anyways i'm having this party on saturday night at my house and she's coming to it with a couple of her girlfriends.

I know I don't ever date chics that are involved with another dude, but I really want this to happen, we share alot of interests and she's an overall chill chic, not a weirdo like the rest i've been dating recently.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MindOverMatter

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if you want to sleep with her, go for it.

if you want to sleep with her and have a relationship, don't bother. how are you gonna trust her after she slept with u while she had a guy?

p.s. you are gonna get attacked by the sosuave morale police in a bit
 

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my advise is to proceed to insert the p in the b and that's about it.

I wouldn't persue a serious relationship.
 

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good point boys, i'll let you guys know how it goes next week.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Freddy1

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It aint just about moral police either. You got to think about it smartly. Its really not worth it.


These days people get killed for things like this.

I even knew someone years ago who got shot in a public over something like this. (fortunatly he lived)
(Keep in mind some girls deliberatly sleep with another guy to get revenge on their boyfriend by rubbing it in their face. "hey look I slept with this guy!!!" "now what your going to do about it!!!")

You dont want to be in a party or at a dance club one day and have some guy come after you. And you dont want to look over your shoulders all the time either. Theres plenty of cases of homicides in the U.S. over jealous ex-boyfriends/ex-husbands, stalkers and what not. Guns are not in short supply.

There are sooo many women out there guys. Get out of the women scarcity frame work. Theres a big ocean out there with plenty of fishes in it!
 
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Ummmmm...I sense serious attachment already occuring, chumpin-itis is forseeable in your future!!

I think its comical how you think this chick isn't a wack job when she's hanging out with you while she has a bf still!! If thats your definition of a worthy girl for a relationship then you'll have to learn the hard way by getting played. Treat this girl like the slvt she is and fuvk her brains out, then leave her.



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