Stealing a chick from an open relationship

[Flakey_Woman_Suck]

So..

I met this chick on Tinder (in b4 haters).
I facebooked her, saw that she was in a relationship. Told her, and then she said to me that she's in an open relationship.

So okay: we sext like crazy, this chick is really insane. She sends me nude pics, masturbation clips. So then I finally decide to go for it and we arrange a ****date. I ring the doorbell.. door opens, I step inside. Not one word said: boom, kissing, groping, escalates into me licking her on the stairs. She cums. We get to her bedroom and there, dun dun dun, I fail to get it up. I make a joke about it and give her some more orgasms, she gives me a BJ and we do 69, but I still can't get it up (by now it's a vicious circle, so no point in trying). She's constantly kissing me and cuddling me, telling me how cute my accent is. The next morning I still can't get it up, so we jump into the shower together. I give her some more orgasms (she's really easy to get off..) which comes down to a total of somewhere near 11 orgasms. Guess I just had performance anxiety (it was my first time lol).

Fast forward to me leaving: I bump her into the wall, kissing her, and it's almost as if she doesn't want to let go of me.

I go home.

We whatsapp continuously. She sends me nude pics and we keep on sexting.

I think I actually like the chick, so I'd like to get her away from that dude of hers, even if it's just to see whether I can do it or not. How do I go about it? Make a second sexdate, and then what?

Cheers,

Flakey

 

[rushing dude 123]

Why do you want to steal this chick who spreads her legs for anyone? Do that and you are just going to replace her boyfriend when she starts doing it to you with some next guy she meets.

If you must go and do your thing with her, do so and leave it as that, don't start seeing if you can take her for your own, she obviously doesn't belong to anyone.

I don't see what you would get from seeing if you could do it, even as a challenge it is not going to be hard and I am going to guess that you could and you won't need any advice from us to do that as her interest level is high. So I personally don't think it isn't worth anymore time than something on the side for you.

It's your call though dude.

 

[JoeMarron]

What rushing said. Why the hell would you wanna get her single? Just enjoy fvcking her and let her dude deal with the relationship stuff. You would be a fool to try to turn this chick into a girlfriend...unless it's an open relationship

 

[Dgwizdal]

Get Viagra or a d!ck pill from the gas station and pop the whole package. You'll be able to fck a hole into concrete. Other than that I don't see what the problem is here.

 

[DarkDetective50]

Do you masturbate a lot? Your answer will tell you why you couldn't get it up.

 

[Flakey_Woman_Suck]

Why do you want to steal this chick who spreads her legs for anyone? Do that and you are just going to replace her boyfriend when she starts doing it to you with some next guy she meets.

If you must go and do your thing with her, do so and leave it as that, don't start seeing if you can take her for your own, she obviously doesn't belong to anyone.

I don't see what you would get from seeing if you could do it, even as a challenge it is not going to be hard and I am going to guess that you could and you won't need any advice from us to do that as her interest level is high. So I personally don't think it isn't worth anymore time than something on the side for you.

It's your call though dude.

Yeah you're right, why would I enter a world of pain for her.

What rushing said. Why the hell would you wanna get her single? Just enjoy fvcking her and let her dude deal with the relationship stuff. You would be a fool to try to turn this chick into a girlfriend...unless it's an open relationship

Yeah, I don't get the whole open relationship concept so I wouldn't want that.

Do you masturbate a lot? Your answer will tell you why you couldn't get it up.

I masturbated like 3 hours prior to going because I thought I was gonna pop prematurely. That turned out great...

 

[LP700-4]

I masturbated like 3 hours prior to going because I thought I was gonna pop prematurely. That turned out great...

Yeah. It's not really a good idea to masturbate before sex. It leads to less libido.

 

[Flakey_Woman_Suck]

Yeah. It's not really a good idea to masturbate before sex. It leads to less libido.

Next time I will totally not touch my penis before I go..

 

[FairShake]

Not getting it up is worse tha cumming too quick. Finish quickly? Just go back to giving her orgasms until you can get it up again! We make a bigger deal out of it than they do.

 

[JohnChops]

Not getting it up is worse tha cumming too quick. Finish quickly? Just go back to giving her orgasms until you can get it up again! We make a bigger deal out of it than they do.

thats really good common sense advice

and OP you cant say "in b4 haters" when youre the op ... lol idiot:rock:

 

[gravityeyelids]

Just be careful with a psycho-sexy b!tch like this. DONT date her obviously. Take advantage of the situation to gain some sexual experience. Like everyone has said, theres no need to "steal" a chick from this open relationship thing. Just sleep with her and enjoy it, shes not relationship material so dont get sucked into wanting her to be exclusive with you. Oh yea, use a rubber (obv.)


If you keep getting performance anxiety just explain it to her and talk to her about what would help. Once you realize the girl doesn't care, it takes some of the pressure off. Girls can be surprisingly cool if you just tell her whats up. if it still bothers you, next time you see your doctor, explain you have performance anxiety and would like to try a free sample of viagra or cialis (cialis is much longer lasting).

 

[skinnyguy]

If I knew that I was going to be with a hot chick, I would not masturbate 48 hours prior.

Had an experience a few months ago in which I had problems keeping it up during an encounter. It was embarrassing since the girl was HOT and needless to say she didn't respond to my texts after that.

 

[Cremasta]

Why buy when you're getting it rent free?

 

[DarkDetective50]

If I knew that I was going to be with a hot chick, I would not masturbate 48 hours prior.

Had an experience a few months ago in which I had problems keeping it up during an encounter. It was embarrassing since the girl was HOT and needless to say she didn't respond to my texts after that.

Lol. Same thing happened to me once. I had problems keeping it up. She replied to my texts for a bit then said she can't see me again and that was it. I was kind of expecting it so I want fully disappointed. Lol.

 

[Flakey_Woman_Suck]

Just be careful with a psycho-sexy b!tch like this. DONT date her obviously. Take advantage of the situation to gain some sexual experience. Like everyone has said, theres no need to "steal" a chick from this open relationship thing. Just sleep with her and enjoy it, shes not relationship material so dont get sucked into wanting her to be exclusive with you. Oh yea, use a rubber (obv.)


If you keep getting performance anxiety just explain it to her and talk to her about what would help. Once you realize the girl doesn't care, it takes some of the pressure off. Girls can be surprisingly cool if you just tell her whats up. if it still bothers you, next time you see your doctor, explain you have performance anxiety and would like to try a free sample of viagra or cialis (cialis is much longer lasting).

Yeah, this is good advice.

@Other guys: I'm not afraid she'll stop responding to my texts. She's just as willing as before. It's just frustrating if she's standing in front of you, with her ass up to you, and you can't **** her. Gahh.. dat feeling. :cuss: