Eyecandie4ya
Senior Don Juan
How many of you fellas step back and value a female before nosediving into liking her? Not too many, huh. That's the reason why you have the complaints of where to find a good woman.
Most fellas feel like they can't find a good woman anywhere. They have tried clubs, school, public outings, etc. Some suggest just walking up to a female and starting convo but the poor fella have tried that and is seem that most of the time they do not succeed. This can be very frustrating.
First, most guys need to understand the value system and then apply. What I mean by this is that an individual should first make sure he capable of handling something with value. The fella must make sure he is "stable" with his life first. This is the first value. Distractions can be a muthaphuka because unstableness messes with the mind (confidence). After becoming something "valuable" yourself, you need to search for value. Not only that but where to find "value".
If you want steak then you go where steak is serve. You're not going to find it at McDonalds, Burger King, etc. What I'm saying here is that have to go where "value" is available. But you have to be sure that you can handle it. Because you want it doesn't mean that you can handle it. Understand. If you were given a 2004 Lexus right now with $700/mth payments without insurance, could you handle the payments and maintenance that comes with it? If your answer is no, if your desire is to have one then it is better to position yourself in the best case scenario.
The "steak" is primed, well seasoned and comes at a cost(not money). The 'steak" is the female with so much to offer that being in her presence is so enlightening. That's is why the "valuable" cats can get her. You must become valuable yourself and then and only then will you be able the handle "steak". Now there is a difference between steak and peanuts. Peanuts are the females of little value. Anybody can get them because their value is cheap. So they are availabe any and everywhere. But peanuts only get by for so long because it is not fulfilling unless you are desperate(hungry?) for them because it is a snack.
So keep it mind the difference and position yourself the best way, the DJ way, so you can to recieve "steak".
Most fellas feel like they can't find a good woman anywhere. They have tried clubs, school, public outings, etc. Some suggest just walking up to a female and starting convo but the poor fella have tried that and is seem that most of the time they do not succeed. This can be very frustrating.
First, most guys need to understand the value system and then apply. What I mean by this is that an individual should first make sure he capable of handling something with value. The fella must make sure he is "stable" with his life first. This is the first value. Distractions can be a muthaphuka because unstableness messes with the mind (confidence). After becoming something "valuable" yourself, you need to search for value. Not only that but where to find "value".
If you want steak then you go where steak is serve. You're not going to find it at McDonalds, Burger King, etc. What I'm saying here is that have to go where "value" is available. But you have to be sure that you can handle it. Because you want it doesn't mean that you can handle it. Understand. If you were given a 2004 Lexus right now with $700/mth payments without insurance, could you handle the payments and maintenance that comes with it? If your answer is no, if your desire is to have one then it is better to position yourself in the best case scenario.
The "steak" is primed, well seasoned and comes at a cost(not money). The 'steak" is the female with so much to offer that being in her presence is so enlightening. That's is why the "valuable" cats can get her. You must become valuable yourself and then and only then will you be able the handle "steak". Now there is a difference between steak and peanuts. Peanuts are the females of little value. Anybody can get them because their value is cheap. So they are availabe any and everywhere. But peanuts only get by for so long because it is not fulfilling unless you are desperate(hungry?) for them because it is a snack.
So keep it mind the difference and position yourself the best way, the DJ way, so you can to recieve "steak".
