"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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STDs: The lowdown

everywomanshero

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All of this I have learned from personal experience with doctors and nurses. Maybe of some help to those who have heard conflicting reports.

Hep B:
You just get a vaccination if you're sexually active. I like the one where you get A & B protection in the same shot. It makes the muscle a little sore and I think it is 3 shots each spaced so many weeks apart which they will tell you about. I think in the US this costs less than 200$.

Gonorrhea:
A urine sample given after 2 hours of not pissing will detect it. I had this one about 2 weeks ago. The same test also detects clamidia, but if you are suspect only for clamidia they may not even test you and instead just provide Anti-biotics. The ones I got I had to take all the ABs in one megadose. Unfortunately, you will have to go back after the gonotthea test comes back because the same pills do not work for it, if it's positive then you will also need a shot. The good news is this process is not that expensive.

HIV:
There is an FDA approved home test that one can use. You prick your finger, bled on paper, then seal it all up and mail it in. You then call an # and use a pin to check your results. You're supposed to wait 90 days since the potential exposure to find out definitively. Note that there are a lot of crap "home tests" out there, so you want to make sure you pickup the FDA approved product that has been screened. If you believe you were just exposed for any reason, you should go to the hospital and there is some process they can do but I forgot the name of it (I dont have any first hand experience with that, google if interested).

No experience with other STDs, so good luck and best wishes!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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My best friend got herpes from making out with a girl that had a visible sore. Not something most people would do but still...you can get it from just kissing, no joke. And the HIV test is a little misleading because it can be present in your body and not develop symptoms or be able to test for it for up to 12 years after exposure..could be longer I don't remember.
 
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