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ok heres the deal on aug 3 i went to massage p and got a massage and afterwards got well full serice as what they call it. i had sexual contact. the day afterwards i got a couple of small red bumps near the base of the head of my penis. it was midly itchy but nothing too painful, so after like 3 days the bumps are still there but not as showing-somehow it kinda of clear up but not totally gone as before-and no pain or no itch. ok what it can;t be herpes right. what is it.
nowing i am experiecing some tightness near more above part the left kidney area . not suire what it is. no pain or nothing just kinda of weird feeling.

i went for a std test-blood test and urine too, on aug 8 monday and was told if i get a phone call its bad news and if i get no call it means i'm fine. i have never gotten a std test so i am kinda worried.
 

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she gave me a bj to get me hard and enrolled a condom with it, i also used condom for intercourse, was very short- i didn;t even *** i was so nervous, i was very short but intercourse -yes. lubricant was used. she gave me a hand j at the end to make me ***-but i didn;t iw as too nervous.
tell u the truth i am scared. 24 yrs old only
 

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where did you meet this chick? background information?

I prefer to stay away from ONS's.
 

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HOLY SH!T so your telling me you went to get a massage and some random chick whipped out your **** and started goin to work on your minny me???

that's some hardcore sh!t but it's like aug 11 and you got no call so i guess your good.. but in the future you may wanna stay away from the ONS like stizzle said...it's like playing russian roulette with your pinga
 

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It's probably just a little rash, or irritation... I get it often enough. It's usually when not enough lubricant is used with condoms, for me... or she used a bit more teeth than she should have.


Don't worry about it, especially since it's been a few days for the test results to have come back.


My guess is, you're fine.

The tightness you're feeling in your stomach is probably nerves highteneing sensations. You're mind's playing tricks on you and create symptoms that aren't really there. I have an anxiety disorder, so I know what this stuff feels like. It's all in your head.

Just relax
 

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It sounds like...

It sounds like you're suffering from guilt of having done the bad thing in that venue.

Often times the guilt causes one to automatically assume he contracted an STD and if only he hadn't done something his mother wouldn't approve of, well, this never would've happened!

I've looked at STD rates among sex workers. It is really location specific. Some areas are epidemic (Thailand) others are no higher than the general populas (Netherlands), but even within a country it is location specific.

Unprotected sex with a woman from a bar is likely more dangerous than protected sex with a SW.

The principal risk factors are from disease such as herpes or syphilis. Things like HIV or HEP B,C are unlikely to be transmitted via protected sex with a US produced condom.

That is my conclusion after speaking to dozens of health care professionals regarding this (I once freaked out as well). I suggest you listen to your practicioner and stop worrying yourself into symptoms.
 

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Originally posted by MercutioTHEGREAT
HOLY SH!T so your telling me you went to get a massage and some random chick whipped out your **** and started goin to work on your minny me???
Thats what they do in the massage spas (here anyway) cops bust them, but there is always new once opening up.....

at least you ware smart and got tested, I hope you showed them the bumps before they gave you the test, might have saved you and them some time (ya I KNOW HAW UNCOMFORATABLE IT IS)
 

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I know someone that got an STD from a massage parlor.

Molluscum was what he got. It can be cleared up but liquid nitrogen doesn't sound like fun.
 

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I got the Molluscum while I was having a lot of unprotected sex. It's harmless, but it certainly makes you think twice about doing that again. The liquid nitrogen didn't hurt that bad. I just wish that they'd freeze them all of at one time instead of just ten or twelve going in for multiple dermatology visits that are probabaly going to be two months apart from eachother while in the meantime the infection is spreading to other parts of your body: face, neck, stomach, arms, etc. The nitrogen failed against one of the growths also. The ones that it did wipe out, tried to return shortly after falling off.
 
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joe45 said:
i got a couple of small red bumps near the base of the head of my penis. it was midly itchy but nothing too painful, so after like 3 days the bumps are still there but not as showing-somehow it kinda of clear up but not totally gone as before-and no pain or no itch. ok what it can;t be herpes right. what is it.
nowing i am experiecing some tightness near more above part the left kidney area . not suire what it is. no pain or nothing just kinda of weird feeling.
Please search these forums for HERPES.

And please get tested for it.
 
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