"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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STD Risk?

THEGAME2010

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Girl i've been seeing for a few weeks had a previous bad (abusive) relationship

She dated the guy for a few years & found out he was cheating (with multiple women) and had a couple of kids. (Obviously, he had Unprotected sex with them - and most likely with her?)

Would you continue to date her knowing about all the STD's that are around? ( I already got one from my past relationship, but I got extremely lucky and it was one that goes away)
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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godofanxiety

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ask her to get tested? You should do that with every girl that isn't a one night stand.
 

SandHawk

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I don't have sex unless I wear a condom, and the only way for the condom to come off, is her to get tested. And I'll tell them that: Tested, and no other **** in where my **** goes. LAy down the law, they love it.
 
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