In a nutshell, we're both freshman in college and things havent been doing so well with our relationship of 3 months and while she's crazy about me, I'm unsure if I reciprocate those same feelings. It's been a few weeks since we've last seen each other - the longest time apart we've ever had - and she invited me to stay with her and her dad so we could see each other. I haven't met her parents before and I'll be staying at her dad's house for New Years and a day afterward. To me, this didn't seem like such a big deal but when I explained it to my buddy he said it was a pretty big step in a relationship. And honestly, my intentions were to hang out with her one last time to see if I should stay in the relationship or not, depending on how things go, because things have been pretty rocky lately. It is not out of the realm of possibility that I may break up with her soon after if things aren't smooth with her while I'm down there.
Now, I do want to see her, I do want to hang out with her and prove myself wrong, but the distinct possibility remains that I may break up with her soon after. Having said this, should I even go down and stay with her dad? Is it too serious a step in a relationship that is having trouble like my friend thinks? Or is it not that big of a deal, and while it is a step in a relationship, it is just another step and if there is a breakup then so be it.
Now, I do want to see her, I do want to hang out with her and prove myself wrong, but the distinct possibility remains that I may break up with her soon after. Having said this, should I even go down and stay with her dad? Is it too serious a step in a relationship that is having trouble like my friend thinks? Or is it not that big of a deal, and while it is a step in a relationship, it is just another step and if there is a breakup then so be it.