"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Staying out of the friend zone?

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LonelyGuy2k4

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I know it's rather difficult to get out of the friend zone, so that's why I want do as much as I can to stay out of it. If anyone has any pointers I would appreciate. thanks. P.S. Don't be fooled by my sn, Im just too lazy to make a new account.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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seanchai

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Kill her dog. I don't think she'd call you a friend then.

Read the DJ Bible.
 

Badmannaz

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express your feeling for her on the jump..don't be timid
and don't treat her like one of your Friends...treat her like you would want her to be your girlfriend..it's called confidence...the weaklings get put in the friendzone
 

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Its not difficult to move from the friend zone into a sexual relationship, you just need to show the target woman that you find her sexy in a non aggressive way.
So u dont need to worry if it ever does go in that direction because you can always pull it back. Read the Friend 2 Fu(k Buddy post
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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