jhonny9546
Master Don Juan
Hello friends Johnny here!
Did you ever hear about the overton window? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Overton_window
For those unfamiliar, The Overton Window describes the set of ideas considered acceptable in society in a given scenario.
Let's do some examples:
If a fat person asks you if they are fat, are you really bold enough to say "yes, you are"?
In my case, I will. Although maybe I'll tell them in a gentler way, for example, "You're overweight yes, but it's actually good if you want to start a nutrition and training journey, it's better to have more weight than less. Did you know?"
I have always thought that the way you communicate is a dealbreaker when it comes to seduction.
Alan Roger Currie also says so in Mode One.
Rather than being a "yes man" or having to "conform" to speech, ideas, etc., so that you stay within the overton window, you should always, or most of the time, be authentic with women if you really want to seduce them, and be polarizing.
This may not be the case when you are having Christmas dinner with all the relatives and a somewhat private question is asked. Rather than telling the truth, you can use a bit of an "overton window" to not tell it 100%.
So there are some scenario's where you would use that, but, when a man is able to communicate in a direct therefore anticonformist way, he is also able to see behind the social mask that many women wear by default, and in this case, this is attractive, because the woman starts to feel as if you can really see her.
On my occasions, I have noticed that it is precisely at this moment that they begin to take interest in me.
They know I can see/read them beyond that social mask they wear, and so they say "Okay, he understands me, he's different from other guys"
Since I start talking to a woman, I notice a clear detachment from when she begins to understand this, and, from this point on, women talk about everything with me, and I try my best to understand my position: if she is married/in a relationship, I minimize contact as I can't do anything sexual with her. If she is single or a single mother, then I attack and bring home the result.
Do you ever notice, in your conversations with women, this "gap" that is created when you start speaking in a calmer, slower, more authentic way, and she stare at you while as if you discovered a way to look inside her soul, while remaining calm, authentic, but sincere?
I notice that girls out there are frustrated and can't connect this way with men because either they are all too direct and jump to sex too quickly, or they are all too much of a "yes man", in the overton window, and women feel no attraction.
Your experiences?
Did you ever hear about the overton window? https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Overton_window
For those unfamiliar, The Overton Window describes the set of ideas considered acceptable in society in a given scenario.
Let's do some examples:
If a fat person asks you if they are fat, are you really bold enough to say "yes, you are"?
In my case, I will. Although maybe I'll tell them in a gentler way, for example, "You're overweight yes, but it's actually good if you want to start a nutrition and training journey, it's better to have more weight than less. Did you know?"
I have always thought that the way you communicate is a dealbreaker when it comes to seduction.
Alan Roger Currie also says so in Mode One.
Rather than being a "yes man" or having to "conform" to speech, ideas, etc., so that you stay within the overton window, you should always, or most of the time, be authentic with women if you really want to seduce them, and be polarizing.
This may not be the case when you are having Christmas dinner with all the relatives and a somewhat private question is asked. Rather than telling the truth, you can use a bit of an "overton window" to not tell it 100%.
So there are some scenario's where you would use that, but, when a man is able to communicate in a direct therefore anticonformist way, he is also able to see behind the social mask that many women wear by default, and in this case, this is attractive, because the woman starts to feel as if you can really see her.
On my occasions, I have noticed that it is precisely at this moment that they begin to take interest in me.
They know I can see/read them beyond that social mask they wear, and so they say "Okay, he understands me, he's different from other guys"
Since I start talking to a woman, I notice a clear detachment from when she begins to understand this, and, from this point on, women talk about everything with me, and I try my best to understand my position: if she is married/in a relationship, I minimize contact as I can't do anything sexual with her. If she is single or a single mother, then I attack and bring home the result.
Do you ever notice, in your conversations with women, this "gap" that is created when you start speaking in a calmer, slower, more authentic way, and she stare at you while as if you discovered a way to look inside her soul, while remaining calm, authentic, but sincere?
I notice that girls out there are frustrated and can't connect this way with men because either they are all too direct and jump to sex too quickly, or they are all too much of a "yes man", in the overton window, and women feel no attraction.
Your experiences?
