"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Staying Humble and Hungry

Demonpenz

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Sometimes I have to ask myself. Do I talk the talk and walk the walk. I think today was a big step towards doing both. After my lift today I got into the locker room and I had a big pump going on. I turned my body in such a way that it made me look way leaner and with way more muscle I had and I took a picture in the mirror. I was going to put it on facebook. I then thought about it and I was thinking is this really going to help my growth. I want to stay hungry and humble. Having 10 "likes" on facebook isn't worth possibly ruining my work-ethic. I decided to delete the picture. It was a sacrifice, but I want to make sure I stay hungry and humble. I also had to be honest with myself. I still have lots of work to get my body fat down.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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foreverAFC

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lol
 

Krueg

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I'd say keep the pictures you take, whether you want to post them or not is up to you. But, having pictures of yourself through out your training you can look back at the gains you made.
 
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