Lets not focus on what he DIDN'T do, but rather what he DID do. From what i've read it looks like he kept himself composed the entire time, he managed to get some tail, and lets not forget he actually got himself into that situation that any AFC would KILL for.
There are far too many guys who would have folded when she gave him the no, but he didn't. That means something, this guy is on the right path and because he kept his composure he will be properly rewarded further down this path. But that means staying on the path.
I know that all of us would have WANTED to be spelunking her privates with the best of shaft mining
Some may have succeeded, some would have failed but even fewer would try. The fact is that Dustin tried, and he got shut down, but that's how ya learn right? And to sweeten the deal he kept his cool and because of that there will be another chance.
Who honestly knows? Maybe this chick was Fort Knox at the time because of the situation. If her parents catch YOU making a move, YOU don't have to live with them. But if SHE gets caught it's HER problem. It's a fact: Women love to feel safe (although SOME danger can be excitement) but there's risky, and then there's suicidal, and letting dustin continue more than likely falls under that second catagory because it was a little too close to home for her (Punny perhaps? lol)
Or we can always blame PMS lol
Final note, if she let you up her shirt, she's willing to test other limits.
Props sir.