"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Stayed out of jail this christmas.

Demonpenz

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I didn't get to hit on girls today, but I stayed out of jail and I was able to save some money with the money that I didn't spendon being on jail.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scaramouche

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Dear Hit Hard,
I think he's talking about Monopoly LOL.
 

logicallefty

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Brother, I completely feel ya. I got arrested the day after Thanksgiving, 2009, after a confrontation with my ex. Had family in from out of town and everything.

Then Christmas 2011 was having Christmas dinner with my ex and our kids. She went around the table and asked what everybody was thankful for. When my turn came I said "Thankful not to be in jail this Holiday".

A few weeks later in mid Janurary 2012 we had another confrontation and I was arrested again. Needless to say, that will be the last time I ever get arrested.
 

Married Buried

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I was IN jail christmas I got 10 days. And I'm not going to say why I went. More than 10 days would make me suicidal. God its awful. My cell block mates were sentenced over a year.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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