"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stay married or get divorced....?

highSpeed

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It's a public forum, there will be women and they will contribute and their advice has its purposes. Yes it's constructive criticism pointing out that your behavior of attacking others is really low. What cause are you referring to lol? Society is feminized? Why does that matter to you? You can't fix it, all you can do is live by your own terms and find your own happiness so your stances seem silly to me. I don't care what women have done to society neither do I care what women are doing on this forum. I come here to extract what value I can from this place. Just got irked by your behavior and pointed it out, lay off the blame games and attacking others, it's beneath you.
so you claim to give me advice about attacking others and attack me? lol, ok, thanks for that. the cause is the cause of the advancement of the female, feminist agenda. it's called third wave feminism, look it up. it's destroying society. it should be stopped and we should be informed about it. if they are successful in their agenda, not every specific women, but women's groups like NOW, you're going to be sorry. I'd rather head that off if at all possible and if informing a few people could help, no skin off my nose. if it p*sses people off, fine again.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Asasione

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so you claim to give me advice about attacking others and attack me? lol, ok, thanks for that. the cause is the cause of the advancement of the female, feminist agenda. it's called third wave feminism, look it up. it's destroying society. it should be stopped and we should be informed about it. if they are successful in their agenda, not every specific women, but women's groups like NOW, you're going to be sorry. I'd rather head that off if at all possible and if informing a few people could help, no skin off my nose. if it p*sses people off, fine again.
So you think a forum dedicated to seduction that is 99% male is a place to fight these battles? Makes no sense to me. Where did I attack you? Pointing out that a behavior you're exhibiting is distasteful isn't attacking you, neither did I intend it that way. You on the other hand directly insulted me so I find it amusing you're calling me out on behaviors you did. There aren't any feminists that I've encountered on sosuave, we're not on loveshack lol most women who have such inclinations cannot last in this forum. You should learn where such battles that you're waging should be fought not on an anonymous forum among like-minded individuals.
 
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