Stay away from strip clubs

[sharpshooter]

This one's mainly for the beginning and aspiring DJ's. The main reason to stay away from a strip club is this:

They're discouraging for young beginning DJ's.

Why?

Well, where else can men with low self esteem go and pick up women? Keep in mind this is not based on their game, not based on their looks, not based on their confidence...but soley on money. Strip clubs are about money money money money money. So you could pretty much throw everything out of the window when it comes to a strip club. Sure there's a chance of picking up a stripper soley on your game, looks or whatever BUT in the end it is always about money with strippers. Take a look around you the next time you're at a strip club. Who do you see? You see old out of shape men well past their prime with little or no game who are surrounded by beautiful young women. Game to them is getting drunk and then paying for sex with a stripper. Most of them have to have a few beers just to ask a stripper for this as well! Is that the type of atmosphere for an aspiring DJ?

Where else can a 70 year old wrinkly man walk out of a place with two 21 year old HB10 strippers? I see it all the time at strip clubs, i'm sure we all have. Even though we know it's only because of the money, you still SEE IT with your own eyes. It still has an effect on your subconscience mind. It will also take a tiny subliminal negative hit to your ego.

One positive about a strip club is that you can pretty much say whatever you want to a stripper and see their reaction to it. I guess that's good for practice. Just remember one thing, the next time you're at a strip club and you see something that can possibly be discouraging..just remember..it's ONLY because of the money. Strippers = professional *****s (prostitutes)

 

[So Many Ways]

I agree, strip clubs are a complete waste of time, unless your game is so tight that you can pull a stripper. I know my game isn't on that level. The one good thing I can think of would be that you can practice eye contact with strippers.

 

[DJDamage]

Stipclubs ain't a bad place unless you make it a habit.

There are too many guys out there that are still afraid to apporach a HB because they feel intimdiated by their looks. Sometimes the best cure is to tell them to go up on stage with a 5$ bill in their mouth and let the stripper ride them or push her t1ts into his mouth, that will cure any shyness pretty fast. You do something crazy with a stripper on stage you are already getting some social proof from everyone in the club.

Also private lap dances for inexperienced guys who never been with a HB will help too. Just so they can get used to the touch and smell of a woman and be encouraged to have a hardon instead of being shy about it.

 

[aguynamedwill]

blah

strip clubs are good for learning:

-how to approach a hot woman
-conversational skills (its part of their routine, if its not, find a different girl)
-how to say NO to a hot woman (drinks/dances)
-how to tell a woman what you want
-how to touch a woman (depends where you go and what girl)
-how women can use guys for their money (pay attention, look around)
-how women use their looks to get what they want
-how to deal with being different (if you're not being like the rest, people will notice)
-how to do things by yourself (most customers are by themselves)

If you think you're AFC, or if you think you need confidence around attractive women, or if you need to get off the computer and stop watching porn, strip clubs are a good place to go. You don't have to spend that much money, and what you do spend will be worth the lessons.

 

[SamePendo]

Nah, it works for getting a boner.

Everything has cons and pros.

 

[Trance]

WTF guys?? You guys even think on picking up a striper? LOL

Strip clubs for guys of 18-25 are just places to go for fun with your friends, enjoy a nice show, a table dance and chill out having fun, watching great bodies.

 

[DeathDealer]

Re: blah

Originally posted by aguynamedwill
strip clubs are good for learning:

-how to approach a hot woman
-conversational skills (its part of their routine, if its not, find a different girl)
-how to say NO to a hot woman (drinks/dances)
-how to tell a woman what you want
-how to touch a woman (depends where you go and what girl)
-how women can use guys for their money (pay attention, look around)
-how women use their looks to get what they want
-how to deal with being different (if you're not being like the rest, people will notice)
-how to do things by yourself (most customers are by themselves)

If you think you're AFC, or if you think you need confidence around attractive women, or if you need to get off the computer and stop watching porn, strip clubs are a good place to go. You don't have to spend that much money, and what you do spend will be worth the lessons.

I agree with all of this on for the real purpose of the strip club. Pay that cover, and NOTHING ELSE. I went to a strip club once with two other guys. These two other guys were older, mature, and thought they were the bigger man than me. On my my dudes immediately on teh first girl that was rubbing his chest on the way in paid $80 to get private lap dance sessions (including $20 cover) the other guy paid $60. I just paid $20 and it was very cool to say NO even though the girl was rubbing my thighs and trying to turn me on.

 

[AverageFC]

when a stripper sees you, she sees a big fat $$$
nothing else.

 

[Jon E]

I don't know where you guys get the idea that these strippers are only out for money. You can bet your a$$ that someone is banging the hell out of them and it might as well be you. You've just have to be at that "skill level." Ive gone into clubs and come out with numbers with only spending $3 for a beer that's it.

 

[Bonhomme]

Jon E's right

Strippers are just women, after all, and have sexual desires (chuckling at the absurdity of this understatement).

It's all about being at least reasonably attractive in some way or another, and having good physical flirting skills. It's not all that hard to turn their own "sales pitch" back on them and reverse the game, so they really do get turned on and want you.

 

[DjDreamer]

Originally posted by sharpshooter
Well, where else can men with low self esteem go and pick up women? Keep in mind this is not based on their game, not based on their looks, not based on their confidence...but soley on money. Strip clubs are about money money money money money. So you could pretty much throw everything out of the window when it comes to a strip club. Sure there's a chance of picking up a stripper soley on your game, looks or whatever BUT in the end it is always about money with strippers. Take a look around you the next time you're at a strip club. Who do you see? You see old out of shape men well past their prime with little or no game who are surrounded by beautiful young women. Game to them is getting drunk and then paying for sex with a stripper. Most of them have to have a few beers just to ask a stripper for this as well! Is that the type of atmosphere for an aspiring DJ?

Answer this...

Which came first, the self confidence or the good game?

Patrons of a strip club have a high level of self confidence...

Aspiring DJs should seek to sorround themselves with plenty of beautiful and happy (although sometimes fake) women because it increases self confidence therefore strip clubs are a good thing.

 

[cinephile]

There more to it

Strip clubs are a place of business.

Strippers are businesswomen.

Business is always going to come first.

Now it is not impossible to pick one up, they are just women, but they are first going to be thinking about making that dollar.

As for whether or not they are good places for a DJ to practice, It would seem to me that you can practice all the same DJ skills for FREE with probably equally hot women at your local mall or college. One would have to have an EXTREME lack of confidence to feel that they are so pathetic that they have to pay women to listen to them talk.

Strip Clubs are fun places, but remember they are meant to serve a fantasy first. It would be best not live too much in that world.

 

[DjDreamer]

Do women at the mall or college appear interested in every person they see? Do they laugh at every joke they hear? Do they cause a dramatic increase in self confidence? At a strip club you get your money's worth but at a mall and at college you gotta have luck and try real hard to impress every hottie you see...

Now why work harder when you can work smarter? I'm not suggesting people go waste their money in strip clubs...I'm just admitting the confidence boosting value of strip clubs...however a dramatic confidence boost isn't caused only by strip clubs...another way to boost self confidence would be to adhere to a strict physical fitness program...yes one can boost self confidence by actualy becoming a stripper to make the ladies go crazy

 

[TurboLover]

I like to see their reaction when I say: "Hey, me and you have something in common, we both like money." As in your not getting nada.

 

[Jon E]

Originally posted by TurboLover
I like to see their reaction when I say: "Hey, me and you have something in common, we both like money." As in your not getting nada.

When your game is tight enough you don't even have to say that. You don't have to say a word, its just understood.

 

[AverageFC]

Originally posted by Jon E
When your game is tight enough you don't even have to say that. You don't have to say a word, its just understood.

I think when your game is tight enough youre not at a strip club

 

[DjDreamer]

Originally posted by AverageFC
I think when your game is tight enough youre not at a strip club

LoL

When your game is tight, you probably own the stripclub.

 

[DjDreamer]

Every man wishes to be treated like a King so stripclubs are simply a natural phenomenom...there ain't nothing wrong with experiencing the fantasy of being treated like a King...but it's best done in moderation...

 

[Jon E]

Originally posted by AverageFC
I think when your game is tight enough youre not at a strip club

LOL

Hey, we get bored and like to go have fun too.

 

[SeldomSeen]

yep.

Strip Clubs are only a form of entertainment when you want hang out with your buddies and be silly. There's a problem if you're a loner and constantly wandering the strip clubs drooling over the sight before you. Women will read and cater to your ego feeding off of your weakness all the while making you feel like a million dollars. I have a few female friends that strip and they tell me their men stories while counting the bills they made that night.