"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Stay away from cannabis, or no?

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Should I stay away from cannabis? I'd like to hear your point of view.

Cannabis SHOOTS UP my sex drive 10 times so I would probably be more eager to approach woman. It also gets woman really horny too.

As far as body language goes...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DaozC3pafaU

I seem to fit all of these, and weed helps a lot too.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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As long as it isn't obvious you've been smoking , if a woman meets you n u smell like weed , that's all she will ever see u as , is a pot head . I think weed is great , n that fact that its illegal is idiotic , but i haven't done any of it in almost a year ,reluctantly
 

I'm in the Mood

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No problem, it will help to make you feel more loose and easygoing. Hell, that's the way it's supposed to be! Just make sure to buy a few packs of gum and some breath mints to get rid of the smell.

Why not experiment and see how you do with women while high.
 

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Leave it. Trust. The guys I know who are good with women may smoke occasionally if its a night out, but the only dude I know who pulls on a regular basis and is a pothead is greek god type dude. Women swoon over this guy, but he's always blowed and talks like a stoner dude (think keanu, whoa dude) and he can't keep a woman. If your game isn't tight and you are still learning...leave it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Leave it. Trust. The guys I know who are good with women may smoke occasionally if its a night out, but the only dude I know who pulls on a regular basis and is a pothead is greek god type dude. Women swoon over this guy, but he's always blowed and talks like a stoner dude (think keanu, whoa dude) and he can't keep a woman. If your game isn't tight and you are still learning...leave it.
 

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Cannabis demasculinizes rats but is not estrogenic

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Allan B. Okey and Greg S. Truant
Department of Biology University of Windsor, Windsor, Ontario, CANADA, N9B 3P4
Received 2 September 1975. Available online 16 November 2002.
Abstract
Cannabis resin (54% THC) caused dose-related decreases in the development of testis, prostate and seminal vesicles when administered in the diet to immature male rats. Bioassays and estrogen-receptor studies showed no estrogenic activity in cannabis resin. Demasculinazation and possible feminization by cannabis are not due to simple estrogen-like action on male tissues.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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d!ckmojo said:
Cannabis demasculinizes rats but is not estrogenic

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Allan B. Okey and Greg S. Truant
Department of Biology University of Windsor, Windsor, Ontario, CANADA, N9B 3P4
Received 2 September 1975. Available online 16 November 2002.
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Cannabis resin (54% THC) caused dose-related decreases in the development of testis, prostate and seminal vesicles when administered in the diet to immature male rats. Bioassays and estrogen-receptor studies showed no estrogenic activity in cannabis resin. Demasculinazation and possible feminization by cannabis are not due to simple estrogen-like action on male tissues.
Dont copy paste crap you don't understand , that's only on young rats , and rats aren't people.
 

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d!ckmojo said:
Cannabis demasculinizes rats but is not estrogenic
Rats have different hormone systems to humans. This doesn't mean anything.

September 1975.
Oh wow. This article is ridiculously dated and we know far more about cannabis now than 36 years ago (in 1975).

Demasculinazation and possible feminization by cannabis are not due to simple estrogen-like action on male tissues.
We also know more about rats now than 36 years ago thanks to new technology that allows us to sequence their genomes.
 

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Well I've smoked on and off over the years and for meeting women it is terrible cuz your mind isn't thinking right and your thinking is slowed way down. I hate talking to strangers when I'm high. Go listen to that song cuz I got high and that says it all as it takes away alot of motivation, u will not be more eager to meet a girl high and u definatly won't be smooth. What r u doing to talk about how hungry u r? Liquid courage is much better for meeting women cuz it makes u much looser and more aggressive but alcohol doesn't help sex at all and can even make u go limp whereas weed does intensify it and makes sex better.
 

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A long time ago when I was in college, my 'game' consisted mostly of:
"Hey....You! Let's go get high!!!"
And it worked amazingly well.

But only smoke it; don't ever sell it. That hot girl you just met who is begging to buy a dime bag is probably a narc. Attractive girls make the best narcs. It's called a "Honey Trap."
 

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Haha well yeah I smoked hardcore for 10 years~ but I remember in one of my 'Human Disease Processes' classes in college my lecturer told me that smoking weed in the long run gives you gynecomastia, and it always stuck in my mind, and was one of the reasons why I decided to stop using it so much.

So I did a quick google search and copy/pasted one of the hits for you guys. Don't get cut about it, and don't believe it if you don't want to, no skin off my back.

But I got to say, in my observations, that long-term marijuana users rarely become more alpha by smoking weed everyday. If anything, in my personal observation, I would say the opposite.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Since I stopped hitting the bong/rolling tender J's everyday I've noticed that I wake up with morning wood a lot more often, I feel more sociable and interactive with hot women, and I'm more motivated to get out of bed early and do excercise and build my business and chase success.

I would say that its been a positive for me to ditch weed, but everyone's different, so make up your own mind.
 

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d!ckmojo said:
smoking weed in the long run gives you gynecomastia, and it always stuck in my mind, and was one of the reasons why I decided to stop using it so much.
From what I know, most cases of gyno are caused by estrogen. Which is why bodybuilders can get it if they don't use an anti-estrogen with their other injections.

But I got to say, in my observations, that long-term marijuana users rarely become more alpha by smoking weed everyday. If anything, in my personal observation, I would say the opposite.
I agree with you. Most heavy users are very laid back and super friendly. But I think that's more of an effect on the brain instead of the body.
 

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The rule is always "Everything in moderation."

I knew plenty of people who smoked once in a while and they were fine. But, the ones who smoked constantly, like 3-4 times a day did not have much motivation. It's funny because I knew this one person who smoked 3-4 blunts a day, but you would NEVER tell he was a stoner because he didn't have that stoner attitude in the way he talked. This kid used to smoke so much that one time we smoked together, I was messed up because I never do it and he was acting all fine like he wasn't even high but he would still be like "I'm f.uckin' high dude." I guess his body was so used to it that he just did it to feed the addiction.

I think the "Keanu Reeves whoa dude" is just a stoner stereotype. I really haven't seen anyone truly act like this. Unless you been smoking 5 times a day since you were 12, I really never see people act like this.

I also knew this one guy who was awesome to be around when he had weed. But, when he didn't have weed he would be all pissed off at everything and be all depressed and be telling everyone "can you get me weed?!?!?!! Cmon dude find it!" You don't want to get to the level where you are only happy when you have pot on you and a crazy psycho without it.
 

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Alle_Gory said:
From what I know, most cases of gyno are caused by estrogen. Which is why bodybuilders can get it if they don't use an anti-estrogen with their other injections.



I agree with you. Most heavy users are very laid back and super friendly. But I think that's more of an effect on the brain instead of the body.
LOL you can be laid back and friendly and be an alpha. Who says you can't?

Being an alpha is not walking into a room while beating your chest and roaring like a T-Rex dinosaur while shouting "F.UCK EVERYONE!"
 

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Let's assume for the sake of argument you have a job that deals with customers all day.

If person A is going around to everyone "F.uckin' stupid customers! I can't take this sh.it! They drive me nuts! I hate them! So stupid!" and complaining to everyone, this person is not al alpha.

If person B is helping customers all calm and patiently and not letting them upset him, he's going to be seen as more alpha. A chronic complainer is viewed by people as being too on edge and not comfortable. Because if you complain so much, why are you not doing anything about it?

From my days working in retail years ago, I saw my share of complainers and believe me, it was not pretty.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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