When you project high status, naturally your body language and attitude will be in line with all the "techniques"
Instead of correcting every little thing wrong with you, correct your overall outlook on life. DYD demonstrated this with the 8 boxes. This stuff is important in ALL aspects of life.
Example:
If you were the leading scorer of all time in the NBA, you would feel high status right? Naturally you project an aura of self-confidence. I mean, you are NUMBER 1! Why wouldn't you!?
You would naturally lean back. You would naturally have the "i don't have a ****" attitude because naturally YOU won't give a ****.
When you are interacting with someone, you don't care about the outcomes and you take what you want because you know you can get away with it.
All the techniques you read up on fastseduction101 or whatever... they come to you naturally. ****y and funny will come naturally because you speak your mind. You don't care about making people laugh or being funny, you only care about making yourself laugh.
You don't say things to turn girls on or make them interested because you don't care. If they don't want you, you don't want them.
What is the result of all this... high status... you NATURALLY project all the techniques you need to. You are YOURSELF!
And well... do you get all the women? Is this the magic formula.
Maybe so and maybe not.... you still need to be proactive and not lazy.
But I suppose is worked for Wilt Chamberlain. I don't know his exact story, but I can bet this ****er didn't give a **** about most of the 20,000 women he ****ed nor his critics.
http://espn.go.com/nba/news/1999/1012/110836.html
Sure you could say that Wilt just took advantage of all his groupies.... all 20,000 of them. Or maybe he was lying? However I kind of doubt it.
How about Brad Pitt?
How about Micheal Jordan?
How about that Jock in your High School who ****ed all the babes?
How about David DeAngelo?
How about Tyler Durden (from realsocialdynamics)
How about Swinggcat?
They do have all these techniques, but look at the huge picture for a second. All these traits they describe and techniques show that you have high status. NOT ONE technique describes low status. Even the technique where you show you softer, sensitive side. That still shows high status, though it is a bit counter intuitive. When you show your sensitive side, it projects that you do not care if someone sees you cry. Its your ****ing world.
****y Funny should show that you are humorous and you don't give a **** about what happens. You are being funny for yourself, not for them. You aren't their comedian, you are your own.
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Just keep something in mind... still be proactive. Unless you really are Wilt Chamberlain, nothing will happen if you sit in the corner and not talk to anyone because you don't give a ****.
Shyness is not high status.
Depression is not high status (get help!)
Being angry is not high status.
Being resentful is not high status.
Talking too much is not high status.
However you don't want to be toooo high status over certain chicks. Some chicks will look AT YOU as out of her league. If you are looking to get laid, lower you status, but stay above her.
Also, interaction among people of different, yet close status is always best. When 2 people are at the same status, they have nothing to talk about. Why would they ask advice or give advice to someone at the same level as him. You feel that empytness... that void when you are talking to someone at the same status.
Talk to a chick..... almost as if you are her daddy. (no incest... just analogy).
Think about it. A girl looks up to her dad, loves her dad (most of the time) and talks to her daddy all the time. The dad is not so high status that he never talks back to the girl... The daddy teases his daughter, he makes fun of her, he hugs her. He shows her his sensitive side, everything. And he punishes the girl when she is being a *****. None of his daughters *****-test work, the Dad just says "what the **** are you doing, go to bed" or whatever.
Take that analogy and put that on yourself. No no no, don't listen to the girls problems (don't be her psychologist). Don't be exactly her daddy.. that would be sick.
But have the Daddy attitude. You control her like the father, let her take care of your comforts like the mother. Keep the roles in check.
Don't give the girl power. Since when did the daughter (in a healthy Dad/Daughter relationship) take control of the father? Since when did the daughter drive around the Dad? Since when did the daughter talk to her dad about DNA, computers, and LCD screens?
No no no. Think of those fun conversations Dads and daughters could have. Like talking about what our favorite things to do are, etc.
OKAY... I know the Dad/daughter analogy can seem a bit out there. Just take it as an example for status.
Father has status over the daughter, it is always assumed.
Father cares about the daughter.
Don't be the father who gives into her every whim and buys her things all the time. Think of a strict, but fun loving dad kind of.
Basically you want to project STATUS ALL the time. ALL the time. This doesn't mean be a jerk or a hard-ass. This means be the one in control in all aspects. Your body language will change naturally. Don't even think about it anymore, just do it.
If you didn't follow any of my analogies and dont' know what I mean by anything... just take this.
ALWAYS have higher status than the girl. Even when you are married and letting her make some decisions, you still have higher status, but you are just letting her do some work. Never give your power to the girl. They won't respect you, deep down inside. Its the bigger picture. She may like it when you let her lead, but THE BIGGER PICTURE.. .deep down inside she RESENTS you for it!! bastard!!
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So how do you project higher status?
Well, I THINK THEREFORE I AM
Have a high self image of yourself. It may take time, but THINK YOU ARE HIGH STATUS.
In your mind, think you are at a higher level than the girl. Think of the girl.... as a having the mind of a 5 year old, but the body of a woman. Yes I know, it sounds pedophile.. but its not. Its just an analogy. Just because you mess around with her like you guys were kids does not mean you can't **** her. Quite the contrary. If you treat her like her friends and talk to them about their problems and do things HER FRIENDS do... THEN YOU WILL BE HER FRIEND And she will think is SICK to have sex with you or be close to you. I mean WHY would she. EW, would you ever have sex with your friends or brother/sister.
SO STOP ACTING LIKE HER FRIEND OR BROTHER/SISTER!!
Why would she **** someone with lower status than her!? Seriously...
Oh you could say "love" The darkest word in our language. Misperception. Love and lust...
Why would you love someone at a lower status? Think about it. Just let that soak in. When have you gone to Mexico, saw the poor 3'5" beggars and .... fell in love with them?
Well maybe that is your thing. This is my thing.
OKAY... lots of theory here. This is just my 2 cents. The way I look at the world at this moment.
Basically, never give up your status, values, or emotions for a woman, especially if she isn't your LTR. Never.
Instead of correcting every little thing wrong with you, correct your overall outlook on life. DYD demonstrated this with the 8 boxes. This stuff is important in ALL aspects of life.
Example:
If you were the leading scorer of all time in the NBA, you would feel high status right? Naturally you project an aura of self-confidence. I mean, you are NUMBER 1! Why wouldn't you!?
You would naturally lean back. You would naturally have the "i don't have a ****" attitude because naturally YOU won't give a ****.
When you are interacting with someone, you don't care about the outcomes and you take what you want because you know you can get away with it.
All the techniques you read up on fastseduction101 or whatever... they come to you naturally. ****y and funny will come naturally because you speak your mind. You don't care about making people laugh or being funny, you only care about making yourself laugh.
You don't say things to turn girls on or make them interested because you don't care. If they don't want you, you don't want them.
What is the result of all this... high status... you NATURALLY project all the techniques you need to. You are YOURSELF!
And well... do you get all the women? Is this the magic formula.
Maybe so and maybe not.... you still need to be proactive and not lazy.
But I suppose is worked for Wilt Chamberlain. I don't know his exact story, but I can bet this ****er didn't give a **** about most of the 20,000 women he ****ed nor his critics.
http://espn.go.com/nba/news/1999/1012/110836.html
Sure you could say that Wilt just took advantage of all his groupies.... all 20,000 of them. Or maybe he was lying? However I kind of doubt it.
How about Brad Pitt?
How about Micheal Jordan?
How about that Jock in your High School who ****ed all the babes?
How about David DeAngelo?
How about Tyler Durden (from realsocialdynamics)
How about Swinggcat?
They do have all these techniques, but look at the huge picture for a second. All these traits they describe and techniques show that you have high status. NOT ONE technique describes low status. Even the technique where you show you softer, sensitive side. That still shows high status, though it is a bit counter intuitive. When you show your sensitive side, it projects that you do not care if someone sees you cry. Its your ****ing world.
****y Funny should show that you are humorous and you don't give a **** about what happens. You are being funny for yourself, not for them. You aren't their comedian, you are your own.
____________________
Just keep something in mind... still be proactive. Unless you really are Wilt Chamberlain, nothing will happen if you sit in the corner and not talk to anyone because you don't give a ****.
Shyness is not high status.
Depression is not high status (get help!)
Being angry is not high status.
Being resentful is not high status.
Talking too much is not high status.
However you don't want to be toooo high status over certain chicks. Some chicks will look AT YOU as out of her league. If you are looking to get laid, lower you status, but stay above her.
Also, interaction among people of different, yet close status is always best. When 2 people are at the same status, they have nothing to talk about. Why would they ask advice or give advice to someone at the same level as him. You feel that empytness... that void when you are talking to someone at the same status.
Talk to a chick..... almost as if you are her daddy. (no incest... just analogy).
Think about it. A girl looks up to her dad, loves her dad (most of the time) and talks to her daddy all the time. The dad is not so high status that he never talks back to the girl... The daddy teases his daughter, he makes fun of her, he hugs her. He shows her his sensitive side, everything. And he punishes the girl when she is being a *****. None of his daughters *****-test work, the Dad just says "what the **** are you doing, go to bed" or whatever.
Take that analogy and put that on yourself. No no no, don't listen to the girls problems (don't be her psychologist). Don't be exactly her daddy.. that would be sick.
But have the Daddy attitude. You control her like the father, let her take care of your comforts like the mother. Keep the roles in check.
Don't give the girl power. Since when did the daughter (in a healthy Dad/Daughter relationship) take control of the father? Since when did the daughter drive around the Dad? Since when did the daughter talk to her dad about DNA, computers, and LCD screens?
No no no. Think of those fun conversations Dads and daughters could have. Like talking about what our favorite things to do are, etc.
OKAY... I know the Dad/daughter analogy can seem a bit out there. Just take it as an example for status.
Father has status over the daughter, it is always assumed.
Father cares about the daughter.
Don't be the father who gives into her every whim and buys her things all the time. Think of a strict, but fun loving dad kind of.
Basically you want to project STATUS ALL the time. ALL the time. This doesn't mean be a jerk or a hard-ass. This means be the one in control in all aspects. Your body language will change naturally. Don't even think about it anymore, just do it.
If you didn't follow any of my analogies and dont' know what I mean by anything... just take this.
ALWAYS have higher status than the girl. Even when you are married and letting her make some decisions, you still have higher status, but you are just letting her do some work. Never give your power to the girl. They won't respect you, deep down inside. Its the bigger picture. She may like it when you let her lead, but THE BIGGER PICTURE.. .deep down inside she RESENTS you for it!! bastard!!
________________
So how do you project higher status?
Well, I THINK THEREFORE I AM
Have a high self image of yourself. It may take time, but THINK YOU ARE HIGH STATUS.
In your mind, think you are at a higher level than the girl. Think of the girl.... as a having the mind of a 5 year old, but the body of a woman. Yes I know, it sounds pedophile.. but its not. Its just an analogy. Just because you mess around with her like you guys were kids does not mean you can't **** her. Quite the contrary. If you treat her like her friends and talk to them about their problems and do things HER FRIENDS do... THEN YOU WILL BE HER FRIEND And she will think is SICK to have sex with you or be close to you. I mean WHY would she. EW, would you ever have sex with your friends or brother/sister.
SO STOP ACTING LIKE HER FRIEND OR BROTHER/SISTER!!
Why would she **** someone with lower status than her!? Seriously...
Oh you could say "love" The darkest word in our language. Misperception. Love and lust...
Why would you love someone at a lower status? Think about it. Just let that soak in. When have you gone to Mexico, saw the poor 3'5" beggars and .... fell in love with them?
Well maybe that is your thing. This is my thing.
OKAY... lots of theory here. This is just my 2 cents. The way I look at the world at this moment.
Basically, never give up your status, values, or emotions for a woman, especially if she isn't your LTR. Never.
