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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Static contraction burn?

Fender

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Normally, after a weightlifting session, I feel my muscles burning and tired (not in pain though).

But recently, i have tried static contraction. I absolutely pushed my limits and hekd the thing in place for 8 seconds. Sometimes, my face looked like some contorted clay putty. But anyways, when I step out of the gym, i feel tired, but no burning sensation.

Does this mean I'm not doing the static contraction properly?

Thx.
 

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Cheiradawg

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Don't go by feel, go by weight. If the weight goes up then you are doing it right.
 
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