"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Statements of Intent are useless

Ratisson

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I just dont understand why u would need to make a statement of intent. I was watching the Neil Straus seduction School episodes on You Tube and they are telling the guys that after approaching the girl u should make a Statement of Intent. Ie: "I find u sexy".
I think these guys have it all wrong. When u approach a girl u dont have tp make it known that u are there for more than just friends. Guys, she is not an idiot. She knows why u approached her. She knows u want to fvck her the second u walked up to her. So whats the point of these SOI's, i just think they're stupid.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ModernSavage

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Just a clarification, the Seduction School, episodes were run by Wayne Elise (Juggler) and not Neil Strauss.

Also, I think the SOI (statement of intent) is a very crucial part of the game. In fact it is probably the difference between ending up in the friends zone and getting the lay. Looking back at my AFC days, I think by simply using the SOI while interacting with women would have made a dramatic difference in my dating life. Sure, women know what you want, but I think they actually need verbal confirmation for things to move forward.

Just my opinion anyways.
 

The Forms

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Asking for her number is enough of a statement. Women aren't stupid. They can peice together why you want their numbers.
 

DJF or John

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I don't know, lol...because I'm usually "drowned" in sexual state and sexual flow when I'm approaching women....I'm always seductive, calling her baby, grabbing my dyck, licking my lips, and all that stuff.

I mean, getting pvssy is just not difficult. That's why I preach about acquiring chicks that offer more than pvssy.
 
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