"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Statements of Intent are useless

Ratisson

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I just dont understand why u would need to make a statement of intent. I was watching the Neil Straus seduction School episodes on You Tube and they are telling the guys that after approaching the girl u should make a Statement of Intent. Ie: "I find u sexy".
I think these guys have it all wrong. When u approach a girl u dont have tp make it known that u are there for more than just friends. Guys, she is not an idiot. She knows why u approached her. She knows u want to fvck her the second u walked up to her. So whats the point of these SOI's, i just think they're stupid.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ModernSavage

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Just a clarification, the Seduction School, episodes were run by Wayne Elise (Juggler) and not Neil Strauss.

Also, I think the SOI (statement of intent) is a very crucial part of the game. In fact it is probably the difference between ending up in the friends zone and getting the lay. Looking back at my AFC days, I think by simply using the SOI while interacting with women would have made a dramatic difference in my dating life. Sure, women know what you want, but I think they actually need verbal confirmation for things to move forward.

Just my opinion anyways.
 

The Forms

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Asking for her number is enough of a statement. Women aren't stupid. They can peice together why you want their numbers.
 

DJF or John

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I don't know, lol...because I'm usually "drowned" in sexual state and sexual flow when I'm approaching women....I'm always seductive, calling her baby, grabbing my dyck, licking my lips, and all that stuff.

I mean, getting pvssy is just not difficult. That's why I preach about acquiring chicks that offer more than pvssy.
 
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