"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Starting university next monday, any advice?

Dunkin

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Hi everyone, new here!

I´m attending university classes for the first time next monday.

I´ve been reading articles on this web and threads on the forum, but any advice will be welcome.

Of course i´ve read about showing confidence, seductive conversation and kino touching, as well as non-verbal language.

I´m interesting on making a good first impression on girls, which also means that i have to be a good partner with boys (to be an Alpha Male).

Those attending to university... I want your advices!!! Those who don´t, I want yours too.

Thanks and greetings.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Damian

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I wish I was a freshman again!

It may be tempting, but don't worry too much about seducing girls when you first enter. Girls are especially cautious, but many are willing to test their new environment (and maybe even you!). Focus on meeting and greeting as many people as possible, even if it means stopping them on the sidewalk to ask for directions. The first few weeks of campus life are the best, because everybody is new and is looking for a friend. Start building up a large network of acquaintances and then start to draw that large web tighter. This will increase your social circle which gives you value as well as opening up doors to get to know other people's friends. If you pull it off right, you will have a huge sample size to choose from so you'll never have another bored night.

Remember that your ultimate goal at university is to attain a degree. Socializing is secondary to that. I've seen plenty of super-popular guys and girls completely flunk out of uni because they're unprepared for the different learning pace and unable to balance their academic and social lives.

Good Luck! :D
 

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Damian said:
I wish I was a freshman again!

It may be tempting, but don't worry too much about seducing girls when you first enter. Girls are especially cautious, but many are willing to test their new environment (and maybe even you!). Focus on meeting and greeting as many people as possible, even if it means stopping them on the sidewalk to ask for directions. The first few weeks of campus life are the best, because everybody is new and is looking for a friend. Start building up a large network of acquaintances and then start to draw that large web tighter. This will increase your social circle which gives you value as well as opening up doors to get to know other people's friends. If you pull it off right, you will have a huge sample size to choose from so you'll never have another bored night.

Remember that your ultimate goal at university is to attain a degree. Socializing is secondary to that. I've seen plenty of super-popular guys and girls completely flunk out of uni because they're unprepared for the different learning pace and unable to balance their academic and social lives.

Good Luck! :D
Hey Damian! Thank you so much for the advices. I haven´t though about some things you said, so it´s good to hear you.

What you said is really interesting.

Greetings.
 

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yea i already looked up the pass rates and overall ratings for all of those universities, but i wanted to add in another category before i made my decision.


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Women go into Uni as 'women'. They don't have their friends or family judging them. As such they 'experiment'. As long as you're in reasonable shape, can drink and are up for a laugh you'll get loads of action. I slept with over 30 women in my first year of Uni alone. Before I went I'd slept with two.

Things to remember:
1. Be fun. Don't be serious and don't be a kill-joy. If you're not drinking or smoking the good stuff...you're be labelled boring.
2. Go out. Especially in the first week at Uni everyone is getting to know everyone else, so use this as an excuse to meet randoms and start conversations. You're all in the same boat.
3. Do not expect a relationship out of the girls you meet. They don't want one (even if they think they do) and neither do you (even if you think you do).
4. Use contraception.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Keep in mind that the connection between all the students is tighter in university than is in the outside world,there everybody knows everybody.

It means be cautious about who you affiliate yourself with,a psyco girl that thinks you treated her poorly will find a way to badmouth you with everybody...and guess people who believe to? yeah the girl so for the first weeks pay particular attention,after everybody knows you,you can screw some more.

And as Damian said,you're there to get a degree and establish a base for your future so keep that in mind.
Would you rather spend a friday night alone now or spend all the week without a heater for the rest of your life?
 

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When you talkin to real people dont say greetings.

Other than that, talk to everyone. EVERYONE. College is a big network. Friends have friends have friends. Get invited to parties. BOOM! Social network city. Youre gonna meet people in college that will be your friends and business contacts for the rest of your life. There is not such thing as knowing too little people.

Be social. Be friendly. Be positive.

Do not be nervous. You are a boss. Act like a boss.

Inherently, you are going to overexaggerate some of these game techniques and use them in the wrong situation, or mess up with words, something. It is part of the process just keep working working working dont be afraid of consequences. If you keep going, things will iron themselves out.
 

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Wow! I didn´t though these thread would have so many replies:

Women go into Uni as 'women'. They don't have their friends or family judging them. As such they 'experiment'. As long as you're in reasonable shape, can drink and are up for a laugh you'll get loads of action. I slept with over 30 women in my first year of Uni alone. Before I went I'd slept with two.
:eek: Noodles: 30 women on first year? Half your luck will be extra cool for me :rockon:

Thanks for the advice. By the way, i´m a professional swimmer by I also can drink lots of alcohol on weekends.

Things to remember:
1. Be fun. Don't be serious and don't be a kill-joy. If you're not drinking or smoking the good stuff...you're be labelled boring.
2. Go out. Especially in the first week at Uni everyone is getting to know everyone else, so use this as an excuse to meet randoms and start conversations. You're all in the same boat.
:rockon:

3. Do not expect a relationship out of the girls you meet. They don't want one (even if they think they do) and neither do you (even if you think you do).
Sure, that´s what i´ve got in mind, no relationships, just getting laid: More fun, more cheap, and more time to study and practice sports.

4. Use contraception.
:yes:

Strelok: Good advices too, thanks man.
By the way... tell me about psycho girls... I have known one or two of them!
:trouble:

NorwegianDJ: Terrific webs, thanks!

Powpow: I live in Argentina and speak spanish in the real world, that´s why my english is weird... in the real world I don´t say "greetings".

Be social. Be friendly. Be positive.
Sounds like an excellent slogan.

Inherently, you are going to overexaggerate some of these game techniques and use them in the wrong situation, or mess up with words, something. It is part of the process just keep working working working dont be afraid of consequences. If you keep going, things will iron themselves out.
Yeah! Been there, but i know it´s part of the game, sometimes we need to make mistakes in order to learn.

Thanks to all of you, looking forward to meet new pussies next monday!!!
 
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