starting to think they deserve how there treated

[derby1]

have a few women over the last few months that ive called out on there disrespectful bull**** then walked away however left communication open! this can go on for months or 100 years as far as im concerned HOWEVER Ive noticed no apology but as soon as im pictured with another woman, they have a meltdown unfriend block send abuse whichever

all they had to do was send an apology and we would have been back to having a good time

what a vile generation cant wait till there 40+ lonely as F

 

[Glassguy]

Women want what they cant have. Period.

When you want them, they run the other way. When you are with someone, they want you. If you left one to be with another, the one you left would want you and the one you left for wouldnt anymore.

It makes no sense but it makes perfect sense.

Thats why its best to be indifferent.

Recently I was supposed to meet up for drinks with a very attractive blonde that I have lots of mutual friends with. She stopped responding a while back to my messaging and then after 2 weeks sent me a "Hey how have you been?". So we chatted a bit and then set up a date. I sent her my number (fb messenger) and told her to text me her address and I would pick her up at 8pm on Saturday. "OK sounds good" she said. Never heard back. A few days later I said "Hey lets make it 8:30 Saturday and I will still need your address"..."Ok I will text it to you in a bit. 8:30 should be fine". Never heard back.

So I went on another date Saturday night instead. On Sunday morning I blocked her messages on fb. Sunday afternoon she texts me "Did you block me on fb?". Notice it was the first time that she messaged me after I sent her my cell number when I asked for her address.

Me: Sure did!
Her: why did you do that?
Me: Because you never got back to me so I went out with someone else last night. I had a great time with her so I think I will go that direction. Take care.
Her: So thats it??????
Me: Yep. Sure is.
Her: OMG. I got busy last night and couldnt make it. I still want to get together.
Me: I will put you on the bench and if it doesnt work out with the other one, I will let you know.
Her: Nah thats ok.
Me: Ok. Cool.

Her 3 hours later: So you really dont want to grab drinks with me now?

I never responded. Lost all interest.

The point here is to do EXACT opposite of what you think makes them want you. Just be indifferent as if you dont care either way.

Another chick from this past weekend:
Her: I am sorry but I have to work over this evening and wont be able to grab a drink after work.
Me: Completely fine and thanks for letting me know in advance so I can go a different direction.
Her: Well I would still like to hang out at some point.
Me: Ok. Let me know if you figure out another time and I will see what I can do. If not, nice chatting with you.
Her: Well I still want to meet up.

I never responded back.

4 hrs later: "Hey can you meet up Tuesday around 8?"

Me: Sure. See you there.

Build a little rapport, go for the date and if there is any beating around the bush, show indirectly that its no problem, you will just walk away. You are fine with either meeting up or moving on. No problem, all is good.

That is when a woman will start pursuing you if her interest level is high.

 

[Roober]

The problem isn't with women, the problem is with your expectations. You expect an apology, and she doesn't believe you deserve one. If she believed you deserved an apology, she would apologize. If you base your decisions on testing whether or not another person will perform a certain action, you are going to be disappointed more often than not.

You are essentially $hit-testing her, a feminine behavior.

 

[derby1]

The problem isn't with women, the problem is with your expectations. You expect an apology

and quite rightly so Im a high value man!!, im just always interested how there phone soon works when its back to there selfish needs and wants

 

[derby1]

you lot contradict so much of your own info its unreal ive purely said ive walked away from dispresect you also regularly all say how a woman doesnt apologise....well a woman who doesnt see what she does wrong is not welcome in my life pretty ****ing simple!! my OP was to state how annoying they are

 

[marmel75]

and quite rightly so Im a high value man!!, im just always interested how there phone soon works when its back to there selfish needs and wants

Then I suggest you learn how high value men act, because it's not like that. Saying you are high value doesn't make it true. You actually have to BE high value for it to be true.

Men who act emotionally and butt hurt to women's actions and moods simply show they are NOT high value, regardless of what you think. High value men could care less what a woman does they are immenently replaceable.

When actions and words dont match, always believe the actions.

 

[derby1]

so im not allowed to state ive walked away as i am high value? im simply observing how much more selfish these women are getting as modern times go on its offputting

 

[derby1]

my actions and words are congruent or id be blowing there phone up within a week of walking away i also let a woman calmly know what shes done wrong

 

[marmel75]

so im not allowed to state ive walked away as i am high value? im simply observing how much more selfish these women are getting as modern times go on its offputting

If you can't change it, why spend time worrying about it?

 

[Urbanyst]

Then I suggest you learn how high value men act, because it's not like that. Saying you are high value doesn't make it true. You actually have to BE high value for it to be true.

Men who act emotionally and butt hurt to women's actions and moods simply show they are NOT high value, regardless of what you think. High value men could care less what a woman does they are immenently replaceable.

When actions and words dont match, always believe the actions.

LOL.

More of this "be a robot" horse sh*t advice I keep seeing people post here.

A high VALUE man is allowed to CARE and EXPECT about whatever the f*ck he wants. Wanting to be treated with RESPECT by women is not being "butt hurt".

Acting like a robot because "you can't show emotions around women" is just fraud and calibration. Indirectly elevating the woman above yourself. Because if you have VALUE there is no NEED to calibrate yourself because someone with a vagina is around lol.

 

[resilient]

Me: I will put you on the bench and if it doesn't work out with the other one, I will let you know.

Classic and awesome all at the same time! . It's like telling a bratty little kid to go in her corner for a timeout. Kudos man.

 

[Roober]

and quite rightly so Im a high value man!!, im just always interested how there phone soon works when its back to there selfish needs and wants

You shouldn't EVER have to tell someone what type of person you are. It should come across so naturally that others tell you. Additionally, if you were such high value, these women wouldn't be disrespecting you. Would you agree with that, or merely just write off women as the problem? The answer to that question will indicate your philosophical understanding of the situation.

The bolded clearly indicates that your emotions are dependent on their actions. You have developed these expectations, and if women don't meet them, they are disrespectful. Do you even comprehend the lunacy there? Have you heard the concept that, Expectations are pre-meditated resentments? Google it as I don't really feel like explaining the concept here. Your expectations are essentially your test to her respect. Unfortunately, she doesn't feel you deserve it, because a multitude of reasons. One of them could simply be that she is busy and has better things to do...

LOL.

More of this "be a robot" horse sh*t advice I keep seeing people post here.

A high VALUE man is allowed to CARE and EXPECT about whatever the f*ck he wants. Wanting to be treated with RESPECT by women is not being "butt hurt".

Acting like a robot because "you can't show emotions around women" is just fraud and calibration. Indirectly elevating the woman above yourself. Because if you have VALUE there is no NEED to calibrate yourself because someone with a vagina is around lol.

There is certainly a diverging train of thought on this forum on what constitutes disrespectful behavior, so I won't delve into that topic. However, it does bring up an important point about the basis of a supposed "high value man". A high value man doesn't

a) Test his woman, and
b) Is unphased by his woman's emotions
c) Controls his woman's emotions

Call it a robot or whatever you like. I consider it the difference between acting more feminine or masculine, and has nothing to do the biology between our legs. There is no fraud and calibration, there is no acting, there is just indifference. If you need to calibrate your emotions to remain calm, then... well.. you have some work to do on those weaknesses you refuse to acknowledge.

I think we all have some of those demons; some of us just won't admit it...

 

[Glassguy]

Classic and awesome all at the same time! . It's like telling a bratty little kid to go in her corner for a timeout. Kudos man.

Yeah I know it's probably a burned bridge but I really don't care. That was basically me telling her "fvck you, you've been demoted and I don't give 2 sh!ts".

I doubt I hear from her again, but if she reaches out I won't be offering dinner or drinks. I'll just tell her to come over and hang out. That's what she deserves. No more no less lol.

 

[derby1]

dont agree with you roober at all! i could have 97 women worship me and 3 be disrepectful for all you know......does 100% of women worship you? that doesnt mean ive got oneitis for these women it just means im interested in there behaviour when scenarios like this come up

 

[marmel75]

dont agree with you roober at all! i could have 97 women worship me and 3 be disrepectful for all you know......does 100% of women worship you? that doesnt mean ive got oneitis for these women it just means im interested in there behaviour when scenarios like this come up

You should have 100% of women respect you because the ones that don't should be walked away from withour looking back and with no remorse.

Thats what people don't seem to understand. The reason women disrespect guys is because YOU LET THEM. If you walked away from them when you should, they wouldn't be there to disrespect you anymore.

 

[derby1]

i have walked away from them have you not read the post im stating how they try to come back for the wrong reason, I dont block women

 

[byers90]

Your post doesn't scream of high value - a high value man would call them out on their bull****, yes, but unless he had some kind of significant attachment to the woman/women - he wouldn't care whether he got an apology or not. What's it matter at the end of the day? It says more about her than it does him - and guess what, it's not just women who are like this. Plenty of men have fragile lego's who get all bent out of shape when you call them out on things. You sound like a temper tantrum throwing child.

 

[derby1]

I DONT CARE I HAVENT GOT AN APOLOGY FFS!!!!! im saying the CHEEK of these women when they reappear when they they sniff other women AND they are getting worse as the generations go on!! Thanks to 100 men licking there ass on social media

 

[byers90]

I DONT CARE I HAVENT GOT AN APOLOGY FFS!!!!! im saying the CHEEK of these women when they reappear when they they sniff other women AND they are getting worse as the generations go on!! Thanks to 100 men licking there ass on social media

Even if that's true there's no reason to be bent out of shape over it man. It obviously gets to you because you are here posting about.....dude this is not something to get upset about, who cares. Bad people shouldn't be your concern...in fact if they reveal themselves as such you don't realize how lucky you are. Better to know now rather than later.

 

[derby1]

it was just a thought of the day topic and like you guys im just human