Backbreaker's post really hit home.
And I wouldn't stick with a girl who was banging another guy. Just not my thing and there are too many options out there. I'm into her but not that much. She can have crushes and guy friends and flirt...I know it's all still early. I just didn't understand why she would risk me finding out now when it is new but it's starting to make sense.
What if I tell her I want to slow down? I don't have to say anything but instead of seeing her 3 times a week maybe once? I can hang out with other girls on the other two (there are others asking to hang out, I'm not kidding).
Like it was said, she can't break up with me or judge me or anything. And yes, my greatest fear is that it will make her get with the other guy. I'm not ashamed to admit that. That's what this is about.
And I wouldn't stick with a girl who was banging another guy. Just not my thing and there are too many options out there. I'm into her but not that much. She can have crushes and guy friends and flirt...I know it's all still early. I just didn't understand why she would risk me finding out now when it is new but it's starting to make sense.
What if I tell her I want to slow down? I don't have to say anything but instead of seeing her 3 times a week maybe once? I can hang out with other girls on the other two (there are others asking to hang out, I'm not kidding).
Like it was said, she can't break up with me or judge me or anything. And yes, my greatest fear is that it will make her get with the other guy. I'm not ashamed to admit that. That's what this is about.