Starting to regret dropping a plate. Help me out.

[Siragoos]

I was spinning a few plates, two of them crashed, I had one left. She was in a LTR, I felt oneitis for her creeping on, I told her to hit me up when they break up and maybe we'll see, if I'm even available.

It's been a month and a half later and I feel like sh!t for the decision. Mainly because I'm reading on here that I should've stuck it out. The problem is I feel like only a skilled DJ could pull it off and I'm far from skilled right now.

All the same, makes me sick and disgusted that I might've still eventually banged her and now she's gonna probably go bang someone else instead because of my stupidity.

 

[Jack89]

Your first big mistake was placing your self worth and happiness in someone other than yourself.

Your second big mistake was catching feelings for mere plates undeserving of them.

Women and banging chicks for that matter are only an aspect of life nothing more. The man banging 3 chicks in 10 minutes to feel validated and happy does not make him better than the guy with 0 chicks who can be happy without it.

The fact that your regretting it and feeling disgusted about it shows you lack self esteem. Your placing too much importance in women, and that's pretty much walking in the opposite direction of a Don Juan. You wouldn't have regrets if you didn't make them important or pedestal them.

There's no guarantee a skilled dj, super alpha man whatever you guys call it can pull it off. Even they get rejected, even though their seduction is a 100% on point.

Go spin more plates, the more you have the more you will attract and don't catch feelings so quick next time. Don't worry if you lose some they come ago just like everything else in life.

 

[Uncharted]

She already rejected you. She told you she was in a relationship. Next. You already told her to call you when they break up (something I always do). You never know - in a few months you might get a text or a call, but don't count on it.

Time to find more chicks.

 

[JohnnyStorm]

So you basically agreed to hang around in case she broke up with her ex....

Basically you agreed to be her beta orbiter.

Nothing lost here homes, move on and forget she ever existed.