"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Starting To Miss Her...

amnbyrd

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Alright this is about a girl Ive been going out with for the past two weeks. Things were going really well-we had sex regularly and I havent done any afc ****.
Basically she was more into me than I was her and I started to get bored with her. Well things ended Sunday. We had sex the night before and right after I left to take a shower and because the smell of her Pu$$y is really bad though I never told her. Well she got mad at me the next day since I didnt call her-she thought that I basically just wanted her for sex. Well she broke things off though she was really into me-she told my friend that its because I care more about my cars(Im a hardcore car guy) and that I was boring(prolly thinks I am since I didnt wanna go to the club with her).
Well that day she was crying and my friend was there talking with her. He said he's never seen her cry over a guy before. She also texting me saying that she wouldnt text me anymore but she just wanted me to know that she really liked being around me though she didnt know what it was about me. Then she said Bye(my name)
Anyways I need opinions on this. Im starting to miss her but Im not sure I wanna even bother talking to her or anything.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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kdnash82

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Never put all your eggs in one basket. You basically put a lot into this girl even though you didn't care about her. When you were dating her, you should have been talking to other women. Now that she's gone, you're missing that tail that was given to you on a regular.

I would suggest you forget about her completely and start messing around with other women. If she was really into you, she will come back. Especially if she sees you talking to other women.

Just my 2 cents.
 

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Wait.

You can "keep" her. Make no promises. Do your car stuff, do what you want to do.

Call her once in a while, and ask her over.

She likes you, and you've got all the cards.

If I'm wrong, and she cuts you off, well then, que sera, sera.

Be cool, don't try "getting her back."

See other women, too.

kdnash is right.

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KontrollerX

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Read over what you wrote again.

You said during the relationship you were getting bored with her.

Thats your true feelings on her. That being boredom.

Since she ended the relationship before you did this falsely makes her more valueable to you because we all want what we can't have.

That and its only natural to miss someone whose been your company for a long time and who you've gotten used to.

It doesn't mean you really want her back its just your mind spinning in circles right now which is why you need to do as kdnash stated and that is spin more plates.

Heh, and even at the end of your post you say that even though you miss her you can't even be bothered to try and talk to her.

LMAO, its not her dude its just female companionship that you're missing.

Had she not ended it first you eventually would have and if that had happened I bet you wouldn't be missing her at all now.
 

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amnbyrd said:
Alright this is about a girl Ive been going out with for the past two weeks. Things were going really well-we had sex regularly and I havent done any afc ****.
Basically she was more into me than I was her and I started to get bored with her. Well things ended Sunday. We had sex the night before and right after I left to take a shower and because the smell of her Pu$$y is really bad though I never told her. Well she got mad at me the next day since I didnt call her-she thought that I basically just wanted her for sex. Well she broke things off though she was really into me-she told my friend that its because I care more about my cars(Im a hardcore car guy) and that I was boring(prolly thinks I am since I didnt wanna go to the club with her).
Well that day she was crying and my friend was there talking with her. He said he's never seen her cry over a guy before. She also texting me saying that she wouldnt text me anymore but she just wanted me to know that she really liked being around me though she didnt know what it was about me. Then she said Bye(my name)
Anyways I need opinions on this. Im starting to miss her but Im not sure I wanna even bother talking to her or anything.
Meh, leave it. You don't seem to really care either way.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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amnbyrd said:
I left to take a shower and because the smell of her Pu$$y is really bad though I never told her.

Disgusting! I would never have called her either. Good riddance.. you miss that??
 

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wow two weeks, a stinky snatch and you are bored. oh I'd get all broken up over this....lol, dude she did you a favor.
 
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