"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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alright guys i need some help.

ive met this girl in elementary (gr.8) and danced wit her and stuff. But she doesnt REALLY seem interested...like shes dancin wit me jus to make me feel good. Well this guy flirts with him everyday and makes her laugh and stuff but i dont think they'll start a relation. but everytime i walk down the hall and see her we both say hi to each other...thats pretty much it. what should i do??? i want her to like me...and she already knows i like her. but i THInk she doesn't like me, ive neer asked her before. o yeah im only 14 i need some help guys
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Steven Seagal

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stay with the internet pron, shes not worth your time.
 

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damn and in my days, a relationship at 14 was to easy to have and simple..

it was me simply giving the little girl a flower and a kiss, and taaadaa, she was instantaneously in love with me

damn. how easy it was last time.

hmm, back in high school

i used to carry around PEZ sweets dispenser, of some lame cartoon character and i used to offer chicks that i had EC with, they usually accepted and thought it was rather cute. and they'll probably remember you for being unique

now i carry around little chocs. haha, the kid in me hasnt died.

do something unique... definitely gets you more positive attention

and start off on a new scoreboard with a new girl... the girl you're trying to get now probably has seen all your bad points already (paranoid)

you have to be prepared to lose her

read the bible some more and get out there!!!
 

RaMar

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Originally posted by Steven Seagal
stay with the internet pron, shes not worth your time.
yeah man. You need help. Read the bible, and if you've already read the bible...read it two more times.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by jakeyboy
damn and in my days, a relationship at 14 was to easy to have and simple..

it was me simply giving the little girl a flower and a kiss, and taaadaa, she was instantaneously in love with me

damn. how easy it was last time.

hmm, back in high school

i used to carry around PEZ sweets dispenser, of some lame cartoon character and i used to offer chicks that i had EC with, they usually accepted and thought it was rather cute. and they'll probably remember you for being unique

now i carry around little chocs. haha, the kid in me hasnt died.

do something unique... definitely gets you more positive attention

and start off on a new scoreboard with a new girl... the girl you're trying to get now probably has seen all your bad points already (paranoid)

you have to be prepared to lose her

read the bible some more and get out there!!!
you say it is so easy and although you are right you must remember oyu are less capable of this kind of tinhg when you are younger so even thou its so simple becuase oyu are yunger its still harder, just like 7th grade maths is so simple compared to say 11th grade maths, and when you are in 11th grade you think wow 7th grade maths is so simple but when you where in 7th grade it was harder for you.
 

jakeyboy

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Originally posted by check_mate_kid_uk
you say it is so easy and although you are right you must remember oyu are less capable of this kind of tinhg when you are younger so even thou its so simple becuase oyu are yunger its still harder, just like 7th grade maths is so simple compared to say 11th grade maths, and when you are in 11th grade you think wow 7th grade maths is so simple but when you where in 7th grade it was harder for you.
haha i dont know, it was easy for me. he's 14, back when i was 14, love was simplistic. it always seems like that i guess. now that im in uni, i wish i were back in high school, exams were so much easier. -guffaws-
 
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