"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Starting to feel like a boss.

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Went out last night and I finally got my car and I approached these 2 chicks said its my birthday, she said where is your drink I said I was hoping you got me since its my bday. They bought me a stella, bud and some fireball. I was messing with her while conversing I knew I was doing awesome making her laugh being sarcastic mixing in etc... I told her if I didnt know better you guys tryin to take advantage of me take me home they were laughing. She was grinding on me towards end of night I tried to get her home but she had to take friend home so I got her number. This is just the beginning. I want to thank this site and the people and women who brought me to this stage in my mind and life. Also was nice walking and this girl said you look handsome you need to smile and I told her give me a kiss she said no and then kissed me. I saw a girl I knew from high school said I looked skinny was kinoing me JUST FREAKING HA WOW!

I lost like 30 pounds and got my car first night out so excuse me for being this ****ing happy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is great news! You are an inspiration. Hard work pays off!
 

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Excellent story. Reminds me that I could afford to drop 30 lbs myself.
 

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Yup. Things can change quickly.

I now have quite a few options and I've been told I'm attractive by multiple women in the last month. I'm going out with a 21 year old Hawaiian HB 8.5 this week.

Now your goal should be to become a sex God. I've gotten so good at it that man, these bitches are all over me now.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Im telling you though man the events make you the man you destined to be. Its hard to explain but I didn't just wake up one day and want this to happen and it did it was almost 3 years of bull**** I went through in life to get here.
 
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