"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Starting to easily pick up lost intrest

cablecow15

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Girl Ive talked to online wasn't into me at first , I talked with her a bit and she got into me.

Then when we tried to meet , she said she couldn't get one of her parents to let her use their car , then again she flaked because her back hurt.

lol I stopped texting her after that , except every week or so to test the waters
now her facebook status has changed to in a relationship after she posts pics with some dude (very much out and mobile despite "back problems")

so all in all im not surprised , actually im glad i can see it coming now
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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To me its just fulfilling to easily understand things that would have confused the younger me
 

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True that.
 
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