Guys this is really all you gotta do
1. talk to girls you would like to talk to
2. ask for her number and get together
3. have fun with the damn girl! (none of this how do I? waah waah, if you dont know how to relax and have fun you need to be hazed or something) and if you want to bang her then act like it!
(you cant tell me you dont know what turns you on, reverse it and do it to her)
4. DO NOT GET THE ONEITIS! (you dont have to spin plates to do this but you need to have time for yourself, keep her on the backburner, do not let her be your priority, do not hang around her all day or text her constantly, when you start to get bored while hanging out or on a date, LEAVE! dont look for a way to continue the date and make it more entertaining, it looks like your trying to please, cuz you are! This is why spinning plates does help) you can let yourself have a mild case of oneitis once she asks you to be her boyfriend, and then you decide if thats a good idea. But do not put her on a pedestal, if she screws up, next it!
DO NOT CHASE THEM! what happens when you run after a cat? the thing bolts! But if you scratch it behind the ear once and leave it alone, the thing keeps comin back until its purring in your lap!
you really should follow this rule with all people. people hate being pestered. If someone wants to talk to you they will, go do your thing. DO YOU!
But to do this properly you must above all have respect for yourself, you are a catch and you have to believe that, focus on being the best you can be, create goals, not just with women but for your life and set out to accomplish them, they dont have to be grandiose, could be something as simple as getting in shape ect. Do not make woman your priority, you can make them a goal but not a priority.
read this, pretty damn enlightening, backbreaker is A MAN http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=172987
1. talk to girls you would like to talk to
2. ask for her number and get together
3. have fun with the damn girl! (none of this how do I? waah waah, if you dont know how to relax and have fun you need to be hazed or something) and if you want to bang her then act like it!
(you cant tell me you dont know what turns you on, reverse it and do it to her)
4. DO NOT GET THE ONEITIS! (you dont have to spin plates to do this but you need to have time for yourself, keep her on the backburner, do not let her be your priority, do not hang around her all day or text her constantly, when you start to get bored while hanging out or on a date, LEAVE! dont look for a way to continue the date and make it more entertaining, it looks like your trying to please, cuz you are! This is why spinning plates does help) you can let yourself have a mild case of oneitis once she asks you to be her boyfriend, and then you decide if thats a good idea. But do not put her on a pedestal, if she screws up, next it!
DO NOT CHASE THEM! what happens when you run after a cat? the thing bolts! But if you scratch it behind the ear once and leave it alone, the thing keeps comin back until its purring in your lap!
you really should follow this rule with all people. people hate being pestered. If someone wants to talk to you they will, go do your thing. DO YOU!
But to do this properly you must above all have respect for yourself, you are a catch and you have to believe that, focus on being the best you can be, create goals, not just with women but for your life and set out to accomplish them, they dont have to be grandiose, could be something as simple as getting in shape ect. Do not make woman your priority, you can make them a goal but not a priority.
read this, pretty damn enlightening, backbreaker is A MAN http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=172987
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