"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Starting Stregth vs. skinnyguy.net

Amo

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Hey guys,

I'm 5'7"-ish, weighing 125 lb. I would classify myself as an ecto-mesomorph, probably leaning towards the latter. Physically, I've always been the "runt" of my year, wherever I go. That is, I've never really been physically fit, probably thanks to my childhood asthma. I'm horrible at sports, am totally uncoordinated, and have no cardiovasular endurance, strength, or mass. I've gotten a little better, but I'm still phyically unfit.

I really want to fix all of this. Within the next six months, I want to achieve at least an average level of fitness. I want to become acceptable at sports, and more importantly, I want to be large and lean, if that makes sense. I would also like to have high cardiovasular endurance. But my priority is bulking up.

That said, I hear a lot said about Starting Strength and skinnyguy.net. I've skimmed both, but I'm not really sure which one is best/which one is for me. I'd love to hear your input. :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alle_Gory

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You're not an ecto-mesomorph. You're only 15 and your body is still growing, that's why you're thin. All your energy is going to growth, not muscular growth, just growth in general.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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Yeah man, I was 125 and 5'4 in high school when I was 14. One year after I graduated HS I was 6' tall and had 15.5" arms and a nasty 8-pack.

If you REALLY want to get in shape, then join a school sport. It'll be very difficult, but just remember that you don't have to be the best to be on the team!
 

Amo

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@Alle-Gory: Alright.

@Deadly_Ripped: I understand I'm not the best, but at this level of fitness it's guaranteed I can't get onto a sport. If I can just get to an acceptable level of fitness, then it's okay. I'm just not quite there yet.

I'd still like some program suggestions.
 

shizz702

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If you were mesomorphic you would be naturally athletic and genetically proned to easy muscle gains.

From what you described, that doesn't sound like you.

But like another mentioned, you got plenty of growing to do before worrying about or classifyin your somatotype.

Look, I'm gonna make this as simple as possible for you:

Do Starting Strength, and eat eat eat!

That is all.

It is what I would do if I were your age.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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