"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Starting relationships?

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Hey guys, I was just wondering how you go about starting relationships/escalating sexually with girls in high school.

if you want to be in a relationship with a girl, do you just go straight into sexual escalation or do you find out if the girl wants to be in a relationship and then proceed to escalating?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Triple T

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So let me get this straight...
your asking...should you have sex with a girl first before anything, or should you find out if the girl actually wants to be with you?

Easy answer there bro...
You see if she likes you before you go and ask her for sex.


Just chill with her, make her laugh, show that your a fun guy. If she shows interest ask her to hangout with you some night. Show her a good time and you might get a kiss-close at the end of the night and then BAM! GF & BF :D

Well, thats how I got my girl right now.
 

phatboi408

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I agree with Triple T.
But what do you want?
Do you want a girl friend? a one time thing? friends with benefits?

The next thing is after finding out what you want is just doing it. You dont have to ask her to escalate. You can just escalate, if you do things right. When I mean by right, I mean dont creep her out. Do what Tripe T said. Its alot easier to escalate and then become gf n bf. Sometimes you might just get a make out, or sometimes the whole thing.It depends on the girl. She will eventually tell you in some way. And I never bring up what kind of relationship you and the girl are in. Wait when the girl brings it up. Dont be needy, youre in a world abundance.
 
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