"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Read more...

Starting relationships?

other

New Member
Joined
Jan 20, 2008
Messages
8
Reaction score
0
Hey guys, I was just wondering how you go about starting relationships/escalating sexually with girls in high school.

if you want to be in a relationship with a girl, do you just go straight into sexual escalation or do you find out if the girl wants to be in a relationship and then proceed to escalating?

Thanks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

Triple T

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Dec 13, 2007
Messages
399
Reaction score
5
So let me get this straight...
your asking...should you have sex with a girl first before anything, or should you find out if the girl actually wants to be with you?

Easy answer there bro...
You see if she likes you before you go and ask her for sex.


Just chill with her, make her laugh, show that your a fun guy. If she shows interest ask her to hangout with you some night. Show her a good time and you might get a kiss-close at the end of the night and then BAM! GF & BF :D

Well, thats how I got my girl right now.
 

phatboi408

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 6, 2005
Messages
283
Reaction score
1
Age
36
Location
Las Vegas
I agree with Triple T.
But what do you want?
Do you want a girl friend? a one time thing? friends with benefits?

The next thing is after finding out what you want is just doing it. You dont have to ask her to escalate. You can just escalate, if you do things right. When I mean by right, I mean dont creep her out. Do what Tripe T said. Its alot easier to escalate and then become gf n bf. Sometimes you might just get a make out, or sometimes the whole thing.It depends on the girl. She will eventually tell you in some way. And I never bring up what kind of relationship you and the girl are in. Wait when the girl brings it up. Dont be needy, youre in a world abundance.
 
Top