"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Starting out, need some input

Interceptor

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Jesus Mary Joseph...

No wonder I stay away from this part of the forum.

My God, blind leading the blind...........



SO man males who have no idea WHO they are, What they Want, What to do, and MOST importantly How To Be a Man.

And these same children telling other Males what they 'should" do.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Schizofren

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Interceptor said:
Jesus Mary Joseph...

No wonder I stay away from this part of the forum.

My God, blind leading the blind...........



SO man males who have no idea WHO they are, What they Want, What to do, and MOST importantly How To Be a Man.

And these same children telling other Males what they 'should" do.
Prove them wrong.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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Schizofren said:
Thank you! That´s the first time somebody actually took the time to explain what it means to not taking **** from people.

I´ll start working on that!
Yeah I have the exact same problem as you and this is what I've realized... but I actually haven't started doing it yet hahah I usually just don't even pay attention to em lol.

PM me your screen name and I'll help ya out with details.. like specific problems.

I expect some criticism on my advice though haha.
 

Schizofren

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Interceptor said:
Why don't you learn how to 'lift a finger" and look up my posts.
You know, I have tons of material to go through. I figured you had some specific input on the stuff discussed in this thread. Since you bothered posting.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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