"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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starting out, eye contact is the 1st step

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so yesterday was the first day i got out of the house since i discovered this website and i felt pretty good and confident that i could start a discussion with some girls. i think i was overly confident.

i went with my sister and her bf to the doctor, which was in a plaza with a pet supermarket,radioshack, and all that stuff. i walk into the pet supermarket, but there are just a bunch of dudes in there, and i thought to myself i dont think making eye contact with dudes is a good idea, because it may (for a lack of better words) offend them?

i got out of there and went to radioshack. i walk around, and look around, when suddenly two girls come in. they seem very pretty, 7.5-8 each, and my heart sinks. im thinking to myself "oh sh1t! i can't talk to them...." so i try to make eye contact and smile. i think i got eye contact with one of them, but immidiately when she looked into my eyes, mine dropped and went to her neck. i found it very difficult to keep my eyes locked in theirs when they look back. they leave the store and my sister + bf and i head to the movies

in the movie theatre, i had a lot more chances because there were more ladies. i made some eye contact with about 2 or 3, but when i did i kind of noticed they looked pretty angry. so i felt kind of nervous of smiling at them. this is a lot more difficult than i thought. i also imagine myself making eye contact and smiling, and i cant say it looks very appealing.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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hehe dude ur still at this age....a word of advice, dnt expect an outcome

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It doesn't matter if you're not appealing when you make eye contact and smile to others. It's your inner game - your confidence. You can fake everything, but you must go through this to build your inner game. You may succeed at first with some HB, and she's going to break you down afterwards.

Keep making an effort to make pleasant eye contact with random women. Don't smile unless they smile back at you, yet don't stare at the same time. I would go easy on the smile, just a little would do. If everything is positive, go talk to her.

You may fail over and over again, but make sure you learn from it. Analyse what you've done wrong, and you'll see more success the next time.
 
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